women......

[70charginglizard]

I won't live with her though as she's not the marrying kind... well at least I won't marry her.

Good for you man.  I never understand why a man who gets divorced would get married a second time.

[Tilar]

Well, I'm married to my sister and if/when we divorce I will never get married again.           Per 

ummm, yeah,......god i hope that was a translator software malfunction! lol! mrs.skip68.

LOL, surely it is, but just imagine this at a family reunion for a moment...

In a Darth Vader type voice  "Luke," (deep breath) "I am your father..." (another deep breath) "and your uncle."   

[472 R/T SE]

Update: long story short, I'm done with mopars once again. My charger is gone once again as well as my finace" whom I started a thread about also "women".
I lost her due to my attitude, as of today, I'm alone without her. I miss her more than any charger can replace. I wonder what life brings me tomorrow even I write this now as well.
Thanks again for all the repsonses about my old charger coming back into my life guys, but as they say, shit happends and life goes on right?

Mark

The best cure for heartache I found would require another lady.  Even if you were only friends.  Living up there though isn't much for a selection.

I always tell my single buddy who's 42 I think.  If they're single around that age there's usually a reason why.  If they're not batshit crazy, they've been divorced a couple times with multiple children.  The selection just isn't there.

Good luck.  At least you have your kids'.  

[dads_69]

I love and miss my finace" very much. I cant even fathom being with another woman, again in my life. I'm 43, not 23 banging chic after chic. I'm in love more than ever before and alone without her, life sucks right now. I  iss my best friend.
I will not be with any other woman, she is my everything. I've never felt so empty in my life. Thats all.....thanks guys....

Mark

[1970Moparmann]

I love and miss my finace" very much. I cant even fathom being with another woman, again in my life. I'm 43, not 23 banging chic after chic. I'm in love more than ever before and alone without her, life sucks right now. I  iss my best friend.
I will not be with any other woman, she is my everything. I've never felt so empty in my life. Thats all.....thanks guys....

Mark

Mark, I thought you were living with her?   What happened?

[Orange_Crush]

I love and miss my finace" very much. I cant even fathom being with another woman, again in my life. I'm 43, not 23 banging chic after chic. I'm in love more than ever before and alone without her, life sucks right now. I  iss my best friend.
I will not be with any other woman, she is my everything. I've never felt so empty in my life. Thats all.....thanks guys....

Mark

"I lost her due to my attitude"

I have to respect your honesty and your "manning up."  A lot of the divorce threads I see on Moparts and here seem to put ALL of the blame on the woman without any acknowledgement of the part the poster played in the divorce.  I'm not saying that the women are innocent...not at all...but a marriage takes TWO people to make it work.

Sometimes, despite your best efforts...a woman will cheat and there is nothing you can do about it....but even then...weren't there signs from the beginning?  If you married a woman who has three kids and she wasn't married to any of the dads...isn't that a warning sign?  Have you ever looked at YOURSELF and wondered why your wife is looking for attention in the arms of another man?

I remember a thread a few years back on Moparts where a member's wife posted asking for help.  She effectively asked for help from the Moparts community because her husband came home from work every day and spent all of his time posting on Moparts and ignored her and their children.  She claimed that he would spend hours on the internet...OH...and he didn't believe in counseling.  So what did everybody tell her?  Essentially, "let him do what he wants.  He works and supports you."  We never heard fromt them again, but I often wonder if he now tells everyone how his bitch of a wife left him for another man.  Personally, I believe that if she did...he fully deserves it...can't say the same for their children though.

Again.  I am not saying this is ALWAYS the case.  Women can be evil just as much as men can...but often, if you dig down deep, you will find that the seeds of divorce or infidelity were planted by both parties LONG before the incident occurred.

In any case, as far as you're concerned, Dadz...If you are this torn up about it, swallow your pride and fight for her.  There is no guarantee that it will work, but do your best and, that way, of it still doesn't work, at least you will know that you did everything you could.

[Tilar]

Marriage is like a deck of cards, When it starts out it's just two hearts and a diamond... By the time the game is over all you're looking for is a club and a spade.

[1970Moparmann]

Remember gents.  If men had the genitals of a woman, we would all be rich.  

[dads_69]

To have found to the love of your (ones life) and have lost him or her, hurts.
Cars are material items, when we are gone, nothing else will matter afterwards. I'm being as strong as I can be, thanks guys....

Mark

[Steve P.]

Chin up brother. Some things are meant to hurt but we are meant to get through them and move on... Lots of great women out there and the hunt can be lots of fun.....   

[djcarguy]

Marriage is like a deck of cards, When it starts out it's just two hearts and a diamond... By the time the game is over all you're looking for is a club and a spade.

sorry for the hell your going thru ,but be careful that the new gal is not testing you and pushing you into a marriage .sounds like you may need more time to finish dealing with first divorce and all that tramma. spent time with friends and family ,,dont jump into living with or marring another. i have 2 xxxx's and 3 kids,2 are mine and now single for 11 years and youngest is 19. some times it is boring,but no fighting or dramma. take time and be good to yourself,first.all the best ,take care  DJ

[Silver R/T]

Been married 3 times and have no real children of my own.

I got married the first time when I was 20, We were married 8 years. Second one I lived with her for 6 months and she talked me into getting married, BIG MISTAKE. That one lasted 13 days. 

My last marriage lasted 3 years. She had 3 sons from previous marriages. Her oldest son was from her first marriage and he had never met his father. Left before he was a year old. Anyway, He and I hit it off real good. Of course I was into cars and he being just 13 went nuts over my old Mopars. At that time I had my 68 Charger that didn't run, a 72 SE Brougham that was pretty nice and a 73 that didn't run. I also had a 74 Duster that would cut a hold in the wind. 

Anyway, Long story short after almost 3 years she told my best friend that she was seeing someone else on the side. I told Robert, her son that as bad as I hated it, I was going to send her packing. I wasn't going to put up with someone cheating behind my back. He told me that he didn't want to leave and if I didn't want him he would go live with his grandfather, but he wanted to stay with me... So he did. He was 16 and had his license so he could drive to school, I let him drive my Duster back and forth to school. Now he is 33, just moved out of my house in Texas a year and a half ago and bought his own home. As far as I'm concerned he is my son, and he tells everyone I am his dad. So now I'm single, Have a son that loves me and life is good. 

hats off to you, not many decent men out there like yourself. Heck, it's usually hard to find a man who will take care of their own children

[Lost Sheep]

When I was a young kid a friend of mine I've known my whole life who turned 60 told me there's 2 mistakes in life a man can make: I Do and I'll Take It. He was right on the I Do part. I got cheated on by my ex girlfriend last February..............I find im happier alone.

[stripedelete]

Been married 3 times and have no real children of my own.

I got married the first time when I was 20, We were married 8 years. Second one I lived with her for 6 months and she talked me into getting married, BIG MISTAKE. That one lasted 13 days. 

My last marriage lasted 3 years. She had 3 sons from previous marriages. Her oldest son was from her first marriage and he had never met his father. Left before he was a year old. Anyway, He and I hit it off real good. Of course I was into cars and he being just 13 went nuts over my old Mopars. At that time I had my 68 Charger that didn't run, a 72 SE Brougham that was pretty nice and a 73 that didn't run. I also had a 74 Duster that would cut a hold in the wind. 

Anyway, Long story short after almost 3 years she told my best friend that she was seeing someone else on the side. I told Robert, her son that as bad as I hated it, I was going to send her packing. I wasn't going to put up with someone cheating behind my back. He told me that he didn't want to leave and if I didn't want him he would go live with his grandfather, but he wanted to stay with me... So he did. He was 16 and had his license so he could drive to school, I let him drive my Duster back and forth to school. Now he is 33, just moved out of my house in Texas a year and a half ago and bought his own home. As far as I'm concerned he is my son, and he tells everyone I am his dad. So now I'm single, Have a son that loves me and life is good. 

hats off to you, not many decent men out there like yourself. Heck, it's usually hard to find a man who will take care of their own children

No shit....  good for you Tilar!

[gtx6970]

Been married 3 times and have no real children of my own.

I got married the first time when I was 20, We were married 8 years. Second one I lived with her for 6 months and she talked me into getting married, BIG MISTAKE. That one lasted 13 days. 

My last marriage lasted 3 years. She had 3 sons from previous marriages. Her oldest son was from her first marriage and he had never met his father. Left before he was a year old. Anyway, He and I hit it off real good. Of course I was into cars and he being just 13 went nuts over my old Mopars. At that time I had my 68 Charger that didn't run, a 72 SE Brougham that was pretty nice and a 73 that didn't run. I also had a 74 Duster that would cut a hold in the wind. 

Anyway, Long story short after almost 3 years she told my best friend that she was seeing someone else on the side. I told Robert, her son that as bad as I hated it, I was going to send her packing. I wasn't going to put up with someone cheating behind my back. He told me that he didn't want to leave and if I didn't want him he would go live with his grandfather, but he wanted to stay with me... So he did. He was 16 and had his license so he could drive to school, I let him drive my Duster back and forth to school. Now he is 33, just moved out of my house in Texas a year and a half ago and bought his own home. As far as I'm concerned he is my son, and he tells everyone I am his dad. So now I'm single, Have a son that loves me and life is good. 

hats off to you, not many decent men out there like yourself. Heck, it's usually hard to find a man who will take care of their own children

Amen, It's take a real man to step up and raise his children, but I've always said it takes a great man to step up and raise someone else's child as his own. My dad did it and as far as I'm concerned he IS my dad .

[1970Moparmann]

To have found to the love of your (ones life) and have lost him or her, hurts.
Cars are material items, when we are gone, nothing else will matter afterwards. I'm being as strong as I can be, thanks guys....

Mark

Mark, keep your head up.   It will be hard for a while, and even though time does heal a broken heart, it gets to the point on how you can cope.  Good luck my friend.

[ACUDANUT]

Not to depress you, but it took many years to get over my X...Men love better (deeper) than Women...Or differently.

[Tilar]

Thanks for the kudos guys, I appreciate it.

Not to depress you, but it took many years to get over my X...Men love better (deeper) than Women...Or differently.

I think it's harder for men to let go, where women can flip a switch and go on to the next one. It's the same way with our cars, we get attached to ours where a woman generally trades theirs in for a younger model. 

[djcarguy]

When I was a young kid a friend of mine I've known my whole life who turned 60 told me there's 2 mistakes in life a man can make: I Do and I'll Take It. He was right on the I Do part. I got cheated on by my ex girlfriend last February..............I find im happier alone.


   TOTALLY UNDERSTAND MISTAKE...1..THE BLOODY I    DO  ,,,,,,,,  BUT PARTS 2   ...I'LLTAKE IT...??WHAT DO YOU MEAN??CHEATING ,OR WHAT

[dads_69]

Hey guys, thanks so much for those whom have message me. Im seeing a counsler as well as bible studies. I have to in order to save myself first then maybe her and I can become of something once again, as I've been told, one day at a time and its all still 50/50 still.
I didn't realize how much I loved her let alone how much she reaally loved me until she moved.
Thanks again , Mark

[ACUDANUT]

Women can snap thier fingers and have a Man...Men on the other hand are screwed.

[Lost Sheep]

I'll Take It could mean a new house,new car,new boat,new anything.

[TK73]

Cars have always been more important to me.

Last wife:  b. 1973

my Charger: b. 1973

There were a WHOLE lot more women made in '73 than Chargers.

[dads_69]

Cars have always been more important to me.

Last wife:  b. 1973

my Charger: b. 1973

There were a WHOLE lot more women made in '73 than Chargers.

Tk73....your quote made me laugh out loud, I agree, but, when you find the woman of your dreams, if she has been lost or stepped back, one must do what is necessary to show her how important she is in life, that's what I'm working on not only for myself but she truly is my best friend, and hopefully someday my wife.

[TK73]

Cars have always been more important to me.

Last wife:  b. 1973

my Charger: b. 1973

There were a WHOLE lot more women made in '73 than Chargers.

Tk73....your quote made me laugh out loud, I agree, but, when you find the woman of your dreams, if she has been lost or stepped back, one must do what is necessary to show her how important she is in life, that's what I'm working on not only for myself but she truly is my best friend, and hopefully someday my wife.

I had the coolest woman for me I could handle.  We F-in PARTIED, travelled, did stuff that is illegal in most countries and violated the good book's moral laws.  All was AMAZING until she decided to get clean and want kids.   

Any lust for life I had was ripped right out of me years ago...