Seriously, how long do you wait untill you ...

[Big Lebowski]

     ...date/bang/whatever the neighbor chick?  She's breaking up & she's horny. I know what the little red devil on my left shoulder is telling me to do, but the angel on my right shoulder knows better. I tried that 20 years ago, it doesn't always work out. The problem is she's 10 years older than I am, but she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog. That's for sure.
   I Need advise mostly from you old guys because I know what you young guys would do.     

[Daytona R/T SE]

     she's horny.   

While you're sitting home alone typing this, somebody else is sniffin' on it....turn off the computer, walk out the door and get to it !!!

[Rack]

Hit that shit hard, Dawg, and bail.


Seriously, hit that shit. When you're done, hit it 2 more times.


But then again, there are no angels on either of my shoulders. In fact, I may just be that horned red guy on your left shoulder.  

[2Gunz]

Im 31 so I dont Know If Im part of the older crowd yet.  lol

The trouble is your friend prolly does care.

He might not want her, but he doesnt want anybody else to have either.

How much do you value your friend?

[Big Lebowski]

     she's horny.   

While you're sitting home alone typing this, somebody else is sniffin' on it....turn off the computer, walk out the door and get to it !!!

 Yep, I've thought about that. She's had enough of guys pinching her butt at the bars, I'm just a good friend who just hasn't tried to bang her. Maybe that's a turn-on, soon she'll be pinching my butt.

[Big Lebowski]

Im 31 so I dont Know If Im part of the older crowd yet.  lol

The trouble is your friend prolly does care.

He might not want her, but he doesnt want anybody else to have either.

How much do you value your friend?

  Bingo, that's it. Trust me, that's why I'm not there now.

[Silver R/T]

I would stay away from someone like that, if its really your FRIEND's Ex that is

[Big Lebowski]

  They never married, and she's free now. Wow!

[Rack]

Simply ask your friend if he would mind if you "went out" with her. Don't listen to his answer, read his body language instead. If he appears uncomfortable with the thought, then leave her alone.


If he seems ok with it... 

[Lowprofile]

They never married, and he's dating a stripper now. Wow!

Bro, are you f&*%$#g kidding me!  Hit it RIGHT NOW!

PS....dont forget to post some pics of this Victoria's Secert model. 

[Steve P.]

Are you in LOVE or in LUST?

[Charger_Croatia]

Simply ask your friend if he would mind if you "went out" with her. Don't listen to his answer, read his body language instead. If he appears uncomfortable with the thought, then leave her alone.


If he seems ok with it... 

[TruckDriver]

I wouldn't worry about the age. I prefer younger women. Hell, my grandfather was 10 years younger then my grandmother. Plus, some women prefer older guys because of maturity. Go for it.

[Shakey]

     ...date/bang/whatever your friends ex?  He doesn't care & she's horny. I know what the little red devil on my left shoulder is telling me to do, but the angel on my right shoulder knows better. I tried that 20 years ago, it doesn't always work out. The problem is she's 10 years younger than I am, but she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog. That's for sure.
   I Need advise mostly from you old guys because I know what you young guys would do.     

she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog

You didn't mention what size.   

As mentioned, no matter what your friend says, I'd leave it alone.  There are plenty of broads out there.

Look at the big picture, you slay her, you fall in love, you marry and there will forever be that tension between you and your friend.  Is it worth it?  Is his friendship more valuable?

Do what you think is right!

[hemihead]

I'm 42, in my vast experience( at least where my friends were concerned) lovers are one thing but friends are always friends.If my friends ex wanted some of me, my friend knows that I'm going to hit it.None of my friends would care anyway.He already had it. 

[bluesfool]

The longer the friendship, the longer you should wait. How long were they together and how long have they been broken up? His feelings toward her now may carry over to you should you and her get serious, so pay attention to their relationship now too. Like has been said already, just ask your friend and see HOW HE ACTS, not necessarily what he says.

[Orange_Crush]

Bros before hos.

Pleanty of trim out there for the taking, why bother with the baggage.

[TeeWJay426]

Bros before hos.

Pleanty of trim out there for the taking, why bother with the baggage.

Plenty of horny babes out there... how many good friends do you have, and how important are they? He says he doesn't care, but is that really true? Who bagged the relationship, and why? Personallly, too many complications to go down that road.... I been there and done that!

[Old Moparz]

Get your friend to get a blood test, then ask yourself the same question after he gets the results.  

Personally, I never went out with any of my friend's ex's, but I did have a friend who went out with one of mine. It didn't ruin or strain our friendship, but it did bug me somewhat & I kept it to myself. Mostly because I had stopped seeing her because she was dating other guys when I was dating her. I'm kind of selfish & just not into sharing much except for some beers.

I wouldn't date your friend's ex, but then again, it all depends on the situation. One friend of mine dated another friend's ex, & they ended up marrying. They've been together like 16 years & there's no hard feeling on anyone's part either.

(By the way, I'm 43.)

[Orange_Crush]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

[Steve P.]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

    Is she into cars?? Plenty of others here that would love to take her out!!   GREEDY!!!

[chrisII]

well im 32...but my last 2 girlfriends have told me im old (25 an 27). I say hit it, if i was avalible and my best friend and his wife split up i would date her in a heart beat. but i wouldnt be a dog about it an just nail her a few times an move on either. some times people just dont belong together, others do its a wierd thing and your friend shuld be mature about it..he does have a striper to keep his mind off of it.

[dodge freak]

Why don't you just go to lunch or something where you can get to know each other a little better but can easily say you have to go back to work or whatever ? If YOU think she is for you and feel theres a good chance of being very happy with her and think she feels the same way, then go ahead. A good Wife is more improtant than a good buddy. Is your good buddy going to help take care of you as you get old ? Do you want to go places -vacations, dinner , movies with a buddy or a wife ?

[Old Moparz]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

Thanks.   

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

    Is she into cars?? Plenty of others here that would love to take her out!!   GREEDY!!!

Sorry there horn bag, I still talk to her once in a while & she's not the same way she was all those years ago. 

[Rack]

If this guy is truly your friend not only would he be cool with it, he'd give you tips as to what she likes done to her in the sack. He's give you all the 411 you need.