Jealousy ::) RANT

[Arthu®]

Why do people just get so damn jealous, especially when there is no reason. This is pretty much a rant. I made up my mind and I will finish this relationship after the holidays anyways. I have a relationship with this girl, when it's more of an agreement and we have set terms. Anyways she did something thursday that well just turned me off. It was kind of embarressing to see, she let this girl screw with her head it was just unbelieveable. Let me describe what occured I have to get this off my chest.

Well we went to a sauna on thursday as we do quite often. A sauna overhere is a place with multiple sauna's, baths, whirlpools, etc. Much like a spa with you I guess, anyways it's all nude and really quite relaxing and it really cleans you up. I do it often and enjoy it. It's another one of my expensive hobby's but usually it makes up for a good day of fun and relaxation. But not this thursday, we went to a sauna she was familiar with I had never been there and it was close to her home. Anyways we get there at about 11 AM and take a shower, right across me is a girl, dark, short, great body, not ugly but definitly not the prettiest face. Anyways I notice she is looking at me, not really in a polite way but hey that is what you can expect. I am usually the only guy in his early 20's and there are always loads of groups of females in their early 20's so you are bound to get some attention. Anyways I don't think much of it, but Linda sure does and she is done quick showering and almost pulls me with her. So we go bathing and do a couple of sauna's. I don't see her for maybe half a day. Than we get this special treatmant at a sauna which involves rubbing in the body with honey and than have it waved into you with towels so that the honey completely dissapears in the skin. Anyways it was kind of full and Linda thinks it is too hot at the top so she sits at a lower bench and I go near the top, she comes sitting next to me. We get the honey she she asks if I don't want it on my back and that she would love to rub it on my back. I politely tell her I am ok and she than asks if I want to rub it on her. I tell her again politely to ask one of her friends. So a couple of questions later like what's your name, where are you from the regular blah blah the session is over and we go outside. After a cooling down Linda has reserved a tanning bench (don't know the exact word) and goes there and I proceed to go to a whirlpool where I am minding my own business. She comes by and proceeds to sit next to me. Again some no meaningful words were said and Linda comes back, she about kills the girl with the look in her eyes. So nothing happens until at the end of the evening they are closing and I am in the shower with Linda, the other girl comes up to me saying she forgot her shampoo and if she could use some of mine. So I give her some shampoo, Linda at this point doesn't like it at all. She had been eating herself up the entire day and she let her get to her mind. So she starts telling me to hurry up as I take too long of a shower and the other girl than remarks that it is good to clean yourself well and that self hygiene is very important. So they get into a pissing contest what is more manly or better. And in the end the girl asks oh so you are boy and girlfriend. Well if looks could kill, that girl would have been slaughtered. She gets a short yes thrown to her head and that kind of killed it.

I mean come one there was absolutely nothing to worry about, I wasn't touching her, she wasn't touching me. She kept a distance I didn't let her come closer. That Linda had a problem with her looking at me and well more the physical me than really me is really out of the question. She should not have reacted like that, she should have been glad that she is the one laying in bed with me at the end of the night. She normally was never this jealous but jeez this beated everything I ever saw so far. For one it kind of killed her own day as it was not really relaxing at all. Than she tried to pull me into it, which is wrong as I can't do anything about it, nor did I want to. Sure the girl was everything but polite and she didn't really follow any of the rules of the sauna but come one she just should not have let her get to her like that.

Oh well we'll have a holiday of fun and I will send her a letter + gift before we go that she will find when we get back. So that nothing can change my mind about this again. It has been going on for too long. Rant off

Arthur

[Ponch ®]

did u get the butterface's digits? She'll make for a good "stress reliever" after you dump this jealous broad.

and PS - you dissapoint me. A young whippersnapper such as yourself should have tried to work the 3some angle in that situation.

[Orange_Crush]

What's wrong with you Arthur?  Like ponch said, you might've been able to work out some 2 on 1 action.....

On to other business...how can I work out a transfer to Holland?

[4402tuff4u]

The only thing I can say is reverse the situation and see if you would feel the same - just a thought. Jealousy is part of the human psyche so switching girlfriends will not cure it. Maturity sometimes does, but not all the time.

Oh, and where are the pictures?? We could of given you better opinions/suggestions with some pictures!!

[Orange_Crush]

Hey Art...I have a question...If everyone's walking around naked, is it like a social faux-pas to get wood?

[Ponch ®]

Hey Art...I have a question...If everyone's walking around naked, is it like a social faux-pas to get wood?

[Arthu®]

Hey Art...I have a question...If everyone's walking around naked, is it like a social faux-pas to get wood?

Well it happens, only happend to me once, the first time I went with Linda. But she did it on purpose, to see if she could do it. Never had a problem while obeying the rules of the sauna. Which forbittens touching. But hey once you are alone and it is getting later, stuff always happens. And about the 3some angle Ponch, she is up to it, but she is not much into tinted girls. She is more attracted blonds :S which are not really my type. But she is too picky anyways and rather wants a 3some with 2 guys anyways. But I don't think it is going to happen. But there are enough girls out there.

I know about the pictures, but hey I had nowhere to hide the camera...

Arthur

[Orange_Crush]

Hey Art...I have a question...If everyone's walking around naked, is it like a social faux-pas to get wood?

Well it happens, only happend to me once, the first time I went with Linda. But she did it on purpose, to see if she could do it. Never had a problem while obeying the rules of the sauna. Which forbittens touching. But hey once you are alone and it is getting later, stuff always happens. And about the 3some angle Ponch, she is up to it, but she is not much into tinted girls. She is more attracted blonds :S which are not really my type. But she is too picky anyways and rather wants a 3some with 2 guys anyways. But I don't think it is going to happen. But there are enough girls out there.

I know about the pictures, but hey I had nowhere to hide the camera...

Arthur

Tinted girls?  Makes it sound like they're purple with orange polka-dots.

Hey, you've won half the battle...she's up for it.  WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT COLOR HER HAIR IS YOU HOMO!?!?!!? 

Other than that...stay away from the sausage fest...if there's gonna be three...make sure two of them are female.

[Arthu®]

Btw you 2 (Ponch & Crush) are invited to join me some time if you ever get down here. The groups of girls in their 20's are usually plentyfull and make for a great sight seeing tour. Plus some of you will probably never believe this unless you have tried it it really is quite relaxing.

Arthur

[Arthu®]

Hey, you've won half the battle...she's up for it.  WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT COLOR HER HAIR IS YOU HOMO!?!?!!? 

Other than that...stay away from the sausage fest...if there's gonna be three...make sure two of them are female.

With the availability plentyfull there is no reason not to be picky... And true am not really up to the sausage fest either.

Arthur

[Orange_Crush]

Btw you 2 (Ponch & Crush) are invited to join me some time if you ever get down here. The groups of girls in their 20's are usually plentyfull and make for a great sight seeing tour. Plus some of you will probably never believe this unless you have tried it it really is quite relaxing.

Arthur

Arthur...I sure as shit hope you're talking about the sauna 'cause I aint in for a threesome with you and Ponch.

[Ponch ®]

Other than that...stay away from the sausage fest...if there's gonna be three...make sure two of them are female.

yeah...you don't want to cross streams, like in "Ghostbusters"

Btw you 2 (Ponch & Crush) are invited to join me some time if you ever get down here. The groups of girls in their 20's are usually plentyfull and make for a great sight seeing tour. 

Arthur

Appreciate the invite, but you're forgetting that I live in L.A., where even the waitresses at Denny's are hotter than most 10's anywhere else.

[Orange_Crush]

Screw the girls...I'm old, fat, and married.  If I go to Hollad, Just take me to the Grasshopper in Amsterdam and let me smoke myself into oblivion while I watch the boats go my on the canal.

[Arthu®]

Arthur...I sure as shit hope you're talking about the sauna 'cause I aint in for a threesome with you and Ponch.

What? Why not are you so insecure that you can't handle that and people might start to think things? Well it is quiet common overhere to see a group of friends especially when they get a little older in their 40's to go to the sauna together. Most guys are more afraid to go with a girl than with a guy. Beats me why, but than again I have a lot more female friends than male friends anyways. Keeps it much more entertaining.

Appreciate the invite, but you're forgetting that I live in L.A., where even the waitresses at Denny's are hotter than most 10's anywhere else.

You won't know what you are missing, even though I have never been in LA, it is just that usually the most secure girls in their early 20's go to the sauna's. Only the ones that feel comfortable with their bodies and they are often pretty good looking.

Arthur

[Arthu®]

Screw the girls...I'm old, fat, and married.  If I go to Hollad, Just take me to the Grasshopper in Amsterdam and let me smoke myself into oblivion while I watch the boats go my on the canal.

well that is another approach, I don't see what you guys see in that stuff. It really is overrated and too expensive. It takes too much to smoke before it takes effect and the effect goes away too fast. Now serving a space cake at a friends party as regular is fun though. That stuff can be pretty heavy and it really is fun to watch.

Arthur

[Mefirst]

This was an interesting read, you should have banged your girlfriend in the sauna/shower or why not when you both were covered in honey, then she would have forgot about the other chick

/Tom

Ps. -NEXT TIME, REMEBER THE CAMERA !!!

[bull]

So you're going to a spa where everyone walks around naked, you're all taking showers together and sitting in saunas with everyone's equipment in full view and you're wondering why your girlfriend is jealous? This ain't rocket science.

[Arthu®]

Bull we have done it countless of times before and she never let any get to her like that. You know it is going to happen so why not just have peace with it.

Arthur

[greenpigs]

You should have asked the tinted girl if she did ATM, then pound your girlfriend and make the other one prove it(the ATM).

I think Mojo would agree.

[Arthu®]

You should have asked the tinted girl if she did ATM, then pound your girlfriend and make the other one prove it(the ATM).

I think Mojo would agree.

ATM Only know that as a place you get cash from...

[Ponch ®]

You should have asked the tinted girl if she did ATM, then pound your girlfriend and make the other one prove it(the ATM).

I think Mojo would agree.

you know me well. 

[bull]

Bull we have done it countless of times before and she never let any get to her like that. You know it is going to happen so why not just have peace with it.

Arthur

I don't buy it. Just because she's trying to act "enlightened" doesn't mean it hasn't been bothering her. You can't tell me an attached woman wouldn't have a problem with the scenario you described. I'd say 98% of the single people going to that place (esp. the men) aren't there just to clean their pores. There's a reason why groups of men and women don't usually walk around with each other in the buff.

[Lowprofile]

You should have asked the tinted girl if she did ATM, then pound your girlfriend and make the other one prove it(the ATM).

I think Mojo would agree.

you know me well. 

Wow! hahaha 

[Chargen69]

Why do people just get so damn jealous, especially when there is no reason. This is pretty much a rant. I made up my mind and I will finish this relationship after the holidays anyways. I have a relationship with this girl, when it's more of an agreement and we have set terms. Anyways she did something thursday that well just turned me off. It was kind of embarressing to see, she let this girl screw with her head it was just unbelieveable. Let me describe what occured I have to get this off my chest.

Well we went to a sauna on thursday as we do quite often. A sauna overhere is a place with multiple sauna's, baths, whirlpools, etc. Much like a spa with you I guess, anyways it's all nude and really quite relaxing and it really cleans you up. I do it often and enjoy it. It's another one of my expensive hobby's but usually it makes up for a good day of fun and relaxation. But not this thursday, we went to a sauna she was familiar with I had never been there and it was close to her home. Anyways we get there at about 11 AM and take a shower, right across me is a girl, dark, short, great body, not ugly but definitly not the prettiest face. Anyways I notice she is looking at me, not really in a polite way but hey that is what you can expect. I am usually the only guy in his early 20's and there are always loads of groups of females in their early 20's so you are bound to get some attention. Anyways I don't think much of it, but Linda sure does and she is done quick showering and almost pulls me with her. So we go bathing and do a couple of sauna's. I don't see her for maybe half a day. Than we get this special treatmant at a sauna which involves rubbing in the body with honey and than have it waved into you with towels so that the honey completely dissapears in the skin. Anyways it was kind of full and Linda thinks it is too hot at the top so she sits at a lower bench and I go near the top, she comes sitting next to me. We get the honey she she asks if I don't want it on my back and that she would love to rub it on my back. I politely tell her I am ok and she than asks if I want to rub it on her. I tell her again politely to ask one of her friends. So a couple of questions later like what's your name, where are you from the regular blah blah the session is over and we go outside. After a cooling down Linda has reserved a tanning bench (don't know the exact word) and goes there and I proceed to go to a whirlpool where I am minding my own business. She comes by and proceeds to sit next to me. Again some no meaningful words were said and Linda comes back, she about kills the girl with the look in her eyes. So nothing happens until at the end of the evening they are closing and I am in the shower with Linda, the other girl comes up to me saying she forgot her shampoo and if she could use some of mine. So I give her some shampoo, Linda at this point doesn't like it at all. She had been eating herself up the entire day and she let her get to her mind. So she starts telling me to hurry up as I take too long of a shower and the other girl than remarks that it is good to clean yourself well and that self hygiene is very important. So they get into a pissing contest what is more manly or better. And in the end the girl asks oh so you are boy and girlfriend. Well if looks could kill, that girl would have been slaughtered. She gets a short yes thrown to her head and that kind of killed it.

I mean come one there was absolutely nothing to worry about, I wasn't touching her, she wasn't touching me. She kept a distance I didn't let her come closer. That Linda had a problem with her looking at me and well more the physical me than really me is really out of the question. She should not have reacted like that, she should have been glad that she is the one laying in bed with me at the end of the night. She normally was never this jealous but jeez this beated everything I ever saw so far. For one it kind of killed her own day as it was not really relaxing at all. Than she tried to pull me into it, which is wrong as I can't do anything about it, nor did I want to. Sure the girl was everything but polite and she didn't really follow any of the rules of the sauna but come one she just should not have let her get to her like that.

Oh well we'll have a holiday of fun and I will send her a letter + gift before we go that she will find when we get back. So that nothing can change my mind about this again. It has been going on for too long. Rant off

Arthur

I'm sorry...  what was the rant??   

[PocketThunder]