Threatened Charger

[troy.70R/T]

Ok I didn't even read the other comments. Not to be a D@#? head but you probably have other issues in the relationship. I could get into a long explanation but I will keep it simple. You are probably both not happy and your car is your escape. the kitchen is hers. but even if they were both suddenly done would you be happy with each other?? Thats what you need to ask yourself. FFFF the Charger (sorry) FFFF the kitchen. It is hard to have all that money can buy, but if you are not happy with your situation a new kitchen and a Charger will only make u happy for a small amount of time. Think about how much time you have left on this earth. Think about how much time you want to spend being happy and how much time you want to spend being miserable and make a choice. Sounds like u might need to talk to a lawyer and get your things together. We have all been places (relationships) where when we look back we say to ourselves. What was I thinking, Why did I stay so long, and yet we do it again. Everyone has their own interpersonal thoughts and most of the time people are thought to ignore them. Own your thoughts and understand them
(this will take some work) The idea of two people (getting together/ being married) is so that both benefit and can make it easier on themselves to achieve the goals and life that they desire. I could write pages. If it is not there go find it. Or be Free when it comes along.        Just my.    Hope it all works out for you.

[HeavyFuel]

I have the impression heavyfuel lives up north, like north Dakota. One of the longest,coldest winters up here ever. Everbody is getting a little crazy. Hell, the cops are shooting down people they normally wouldn't in Mn. Just sayin

Yah, you betchya.  

North Dakota winters suck.

Everybody's had a cold one.....our forcast for tomorrow:   high of -10, with a wind chill of 35 below.    


Most people get crabby this time of year, and some WAY more that others.  If you're already a half a bubble off, well, good luck suviving the winter without going half nuts.  

It's just tough sometimes to push through the silly season.

Ok I didn't even read the other comments. Not to be a D@#? head but you probably have other issues in the relationship. I could get into a long explanation but I will keep it simple. You are probably both not happy and your car is your escape. the kitchen is hers. but even if they were both suddenly done would you be happy with each other?? Thats what you need to ask yourself. FFFF the Charger (sorry) FFFF the kitchen. It is hard to have all that money can buy, but if you are not happy with your situation a new kitchen and a Charger will only make u happy for a small amount of time. Think about how much time you have left on this earth. Think about how much time you want to spend being happy and how much time you want to spend being miserable and make a choice. Sounds like u might need to talk to a lawyer and get your things together. We have all been places (relationships) where when we look back we say to ourselves. What was I thinking, Why did I stay so long, and yet we do it again. Everyone has their own interpersonal thoughts and most of the time people are thought to ignore them. Own your thoughts and understand them
(this will take some work) The idea of two people (getting together/ being married) is so that both benefit and can make it easier on themselves to achieve the goals and life that they desire. I could write pages. If it is not there go find it. Or be Free when it comes along.        Just my.    Hope it all works out for you.

True statements.   Time for some tough decision making.        

[JB400]

If it gets any worse find another place to store the car. Think of it as an extra insurance policy 


Oh, and by the way, don't listen to Stroker.  I don't think he's ever held a girls hand. 

Let me guess, version 10.7?

[71green go]

I cant offer any advise as there is always two sides to a story......I only hope that you both decide the right path for you
Steve

[bumper-car]

Women are like a three-legged stool. They need only three things from a man:  affection, attention and money. If any one of those are missing, the stool falls over!!

however it turns out, I would suggest parking your charger "nose first" up tight to the garage wall for now......you just know she'll go for the grille first!

...... and check the calendar, the mood swings usually come 1 week before the actual red tide sets in. ....guys cannot win that battle.

[TUFCAT]

Stroker don't you have a Charger to work on?  This man actually needs advise.  

[ACUDANUT]

Okay, where are my posts ?.  Am I not allowed any opinion,. Anywhere ?

[el dub]

Maybe a Mexican erased you.

[TUFCAT]

Maybe a Mexican erased you.

DAMN YOU "EL MARKO"... DAMN YOU!  


...OR MAYBE IT WAS YOU - MR. CLEAN ....  WITH YOUR EVER SO CUNNING "MAGIC ERASER"!!!!!!!!!!!    

YOU ARE NO MATCH FOR MY ERASABLE POWERS    .....I CURSE YOU BOTH!  

[Tilar]

I bought the car before we were married,

I had a situation similar to that. My last wife used to argue at the drop of a hat and then one day gave me an ultimatum to get rid of a few of my cars or she was going to leave. I told her I had those cars long before she got here and they'll be around long after you're gone. She packed up and left but her son from a previous marriage stayed with me. Turned out she was screwing somebody else which goes in line with what others are saying.

[TUFCAT]

Dave, you should've found a Mexican to erase her  

[HeavyFuel]

All the talk about screwing around is food for thought.....and I realize that sometimes the guy is the last to know.

But I kinda doubt that is happening.  She would be in a good mood ONCE in a while if she WAS gettin' any.    

Maybe she's bi-polar, lord knows it feels polar up here.    

[HeavyFuel]

You know, I've been dealin' with this crap for so long, it's just part of life.  Most the time I just push through until things calm down.  Maybe I just accept that this might be my cross to bear.  

But for her to come right out and say, "You better watch out, I'm gonna do something to that thing.  I'm serious."

Who says crap like that?   Someone desperate?  Backed into a corner?  Nothing to lose?


What reasonable outcome can she expect from such behavior?

It is becoming very apparent what I have to do.  






Start looking for a girlfriend.




One that likes cars.



And practices law. 

[TUFCAT]

Show us a picture of your lovely doll so we can decide. We're really good judges of character.

[Kern Dog]

My first wife used to get all bent about the stupidest things.
"You love that car more than you love me."
Huh? It wasn't true, but the car did have some redeeming qualities.
The car weighed less.
The car cost less to feed and insure.
The car put out fewer harmful emissions.

[polywideblock]

 

[model maker]

Holy cow man, good luck with that, my ex wife 30 plus years ago DID wreck my charger, the # 2  movie car that I had brought back to life, she didn't do it when she was mad, just stupid. That menopause is warning enough, they aren't kidding when they named it  MEN O PAUSE. Living with out of control hormones I describe it like this-  You are on a roller coaster ride with SYBIL at the control switch.

[1974dodgecharger]

Yeah buddddy....

[500Jon]

Its a different world now HF!

All the younger car guys I hang around with now are GAY!!!
They know the pitfalls of cars and women in one household.

There are two kinds of LOVE.
Men only have one kind and its Mopars!!!
Women have both kinds, they love good men and posh houses.(not cars)

Good luck in whatever you do.
Bad decisions take a second or two.
Good decisions take forever!

There is only one right woman for you!
There are thousands of Chargers!!!
500Jon.

[myk]

My first wife used to get all bent about the stupidest things.
"You love that car more than you love me."
Huh? It wasn't true, but the car did have some redeeming qualities.
The car weighed less.
The car cost less to feed and insure.
The car put out fewer harmful emissions.

And it only talks when you let it; MOST important quality of all...

[troy.70R/T]

Like the Motley Crue song says. Girl don't go away mad just go away. 

[Tilar]

Dave, you should've found a Mexican to erase her  

you're right. I should have found a Mexican to erase her and that really would have been easy, then daddy should have found himself a little Senorita to take out  

All the talk about screwing around is food for thought.....and I realize that sometimes the guy is the last to know.

But I kinda doubt that is happening.

For your sake I hope you are right but I will tell you that the only way I found out my ex was screwing around is she ended up telling my best friend about it and he told me.  I should have realized the signs. She used to always go to bed around 10 which was around when I did. But then she started staying up late watching TV and coming to bed around 2am. I hadn't noticed it but she had unplugged the phone in the bedroom and he would call around 1:30 or so. He worked nights at a local Kelly Springfield tire plant.  Of course now everybody and their brother has a cell phone so that would make it easier.

[TexasGeneral]

It looks like you're gonna have to SELL HER! You can't replace the Charger but woman are everywhere

[wingcar]

I have been reading these posts and I have to laugh (been keeping it on the low side, so that you couldn't hear me....since it's not cool to laugh at someone's problems...Well, sometimes it's ok).  The reason for my smile is that I have mentioned from time to time that perhaps I should sell one of my old Chargers to finish the other.  As both have been down for a few years as life and my new Challenger SRT have interfered with my finishing the things that need attention.   Each time the wife has said..."no you should hang on to both of them so that you will have something to work on when you retire".   Even so, she will remark "look that one is running" when she sees a Charger on the road....  I guess I need to go out back and do something to one of them, just to keep the progress going (no matter how slow that progress may be).

By the way, in this day and age I would never sell my Chargers as I couldn't replace them for what I paid...Something to think about if you really want a Charger in your future life.  Good luck no matter what you decide to do.......

[6spd68]

(For some reason women hate it when you hug them when you smell like a car   )

Not all women...