Buisness Closes , and I feel like the last 9 plus years have all been a waste

[68X426]

Sounds like you did the right thing. It takes a strong person to realize that! Good Luck. 

Agreed.

I'll add that you are in no position today to judge if the 9 years was a failure. You have to go forward 2 or 3 years and then reflect back on those 9. So go easy on yourself.

My two cents: you have to have immediate amnesia about this, or you'll just be in an endless downward spiral. Just like a ballplayer who strikes out, you got to forget it and be prepared for your next time at bat. Amnesia, now. It works.

[68X426]

Stu, this guy is a failure. Not you.

[resq302]

I don't know about that.  Looks like the guy got the board to move inward a little. 

[hemigeno]

Stuart,

I'm very sorry to hear this news, and also know firsthand how difficult decisions like that can be for a business owner.  You've had to make a tough call, and at least that part of the guesswork is over.  Now, you get to the "adventure" part where the next chapter is written.  Even if you land a great job, it can still be hard not to wonder "What If..??".  You did your best, and shouldn't blame yourself for factors over which you had no control. 

Hope things work out perfect for you and your family.

[Budnicks]

So so sorry to hear & read this, keep your chin up, the bad economy has effected many people, your not a failure, you just moved on to something else, I wish you & your family the best of luck in your new adventures & a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New year, enjoy your new job, enjoy a paycheck & don't be too tough on yourself... I've started & closed 3 businesses over the years, sometimes it's just for the better, sometime when one door closes, another opens... 

[rick.d]

Sorry to hear this Stu. There is something to be said for those who have the guts and vision to go out and start a business. Hard work, dedication, it takes an above average person. Thats you. You can't pick the fruit if you don't go out on the limb, right?  Now you just got to find another tree to climb.

[Mytur Binsdirti]

That's rough and having helth complications from it doesn't help. Best wishes to you and your family.

[Fred]

Stu, this guy is a failure. Not you.

I thought he's a helmet tester. This job pays extremely well. 

[Ram07]

Hey Stu...if it makes a difference, you have more balls than I ever had, you gave it a shot, followed a dream ...and it's just the times we live in I guess that made it not work....you are far from a failure, or someone who thinks it was time wasted...hats off to you, and all the best....



But, that being said, and ya, you dont know me....but still...I follow threads....so get the trans in and enjoy your ride again, huh?

[Mopar Nut]

Stay tough, you might have lost material things, but you have the best things in your life, the wife and kids.

[A383Wing]

And us.....

[ACUDANUT]

That's rough and having helth complications from it doesn't help. Best wishes to you and your family.

Well said.  
I can't believe it's been 5 weeks and I just recently found out about this (days ago). Hang in there Stu.

[General_01]

Can't believe I missed this. Sorry to hear this Stu. I agree with everyone. Keep your chin up and just think of everything you learned about running a business. This will only help you in the future. Gaining knowledge is never a waste of time.

Good luck on your next endeavor. Glad you already have some options.

[moparstuart]

thanks guy not been on alot lately as i'm back to work selling parts for a new company in liberty Missouri , So no internet time at work anymore

[Budnicks]

thanks guy not been on alot lately as i'm back to work selling parts for a new company in liberty Missouri , So no internet time at work anymore

good luck & best wishes in your new endeavor