Well he wants a divorce......

[Bobs69]

Well you don't have to ask why he is still taking it.  Just re-read what the "truckdriver" said.  It gives you the sex drive of a 16 yeaI'r old and increases muscle mass.  Basically makes you feal good.  Makes you more ambitious.  I'm pretty sure it hurts your attention span doesn't it?

I didn't know that too much can kill you.  Well I suppose I could have guessed it.  Just look at some of the clowns in the gym taking horse roids.  But, if you can take the good stuff with doctor supervision...............maybe something to think of! 

Truckdriver, is it like having the "fountain of youth"?

[nvrbdn]

my wife cheated on me with a married man and they both packed their bags and left. after several mos. she called crying that he was cheating on her. i said what did you expect when you guys cheated to be together? she got what she deserved................ keep your chin up, good times will come. and his karma will come around to bite him in the butt.

[1BAD68]

what happened?

[Cooter]

Wow..... I had no idea that you were a lady! I'd read the posts about the TV car build and i didn't know. Car gals are a rare breed.
I wonder if this is a situation like the following: A woman marries a man because she likes the "bad boy" type. He raises hell and parties hard.... THEN one day she gets tired of it all and wants him to "evolve". This happens frequently. What if your man fell in love with a car gal and later HE wanted you to "evolve"? Either way it is unfair. I think that it is wrong to expect someone to change to meet YOUR needs, EXCEPT in the cases of abuse or addictions.  Best of luck to you, Greg

WELL SAID!

[Wheels of Terror]

One thing I did find out is he drank alcohol on the cruise. this man has never in his 38 years had even a sip of alcohol and never smoked. the women he went with goes to the bars every night and smokes. h esaid he had to be polite. The man i know is stong minded in a good way and would never give into pressure. He is a very intelligent man. Thats why to i think its the testosterone. i would think a real "friend" would respect that and you and wouldn't pressure you. She was recommending cranberry juice and vodka to him. one thinkg i havent found out is if testosterone treatments can affect blood pressure and make it pretty high. it makle logical since. He has high blood pressure and had since his teens. His blood pressure was excellent since he take his medication everyday but for awhile it been on the high side. Im waiting for a sexual remark because of the last comment.....LOL

[Wheels of Terror]

Wow..... I had no idea that you were a lady! I'd read the posts about the TV car build and i didn't know. Car gals are a rare breed.
I wonder if this is a situation like the following: A woman marries a man because she likes the "bad boy" type. He raises hell and parties hard.... THEN one day she gets tired of it all and wants him to "evolve". This happens frequently. What if your man fell in love with a car gal and later HE wanted you to "evolve"? Either way it is unfair. I think that it is wrong to expect someone to change to meet YOUR needs, EXCEPT in the cases of abuse or addictions.  Best of luck to you, Greg

WELL SAID!

Thats the thing, I have aot of other interests too. I can go from working on the car to dressed up with make up on a half hour later. Then ready to go out. i'm proud of being a woman so its not like I'm butchy.

[nvrbdn]

it doesnt matter who you are or how you live. if jennefer aniston and sandra bullach can be cheated on, we are all at risk.

[Wheels of Terror]

Very true!!!!!

[Ponch ®]

it doesnt matter who you are or how you live. if jennefer aniston and sandra bullach can be cheated on, we are all at risk.

that's because as Chris Rock put it, no matter how hot a woman is, someone somewhere is tired of their shit.

[1970Moparmann]

  
I can go from working on the car to dressed up with make up on a half hour later. Then ready to go out.
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You sound like Mrs. Right to me.  

[Dino]

Testosterone or not, there is absolutely no excuse anywhere, at any time, for any reason, where cheating is okay.  Period!

Testosterone is a steroid hormone and it does aid in many health related problems.  It can also be the cause of some very nasty health issues and side effects, one being the risk of it altering personality. 

If he really needs to be on this steroid at all times then I am sorry to say it doesn't matter if he cheated because of the person he is or because of the steroid.  Fact is, it will likely happen again.

I am truly sorry this is happening but now is the time to face facts, accept what is happening and get help to guide you through this.  The people here are very helpful and you will reap the benefits but please do consider getting professional help as well.

[Wheels of Terror]

Testosterone or not, there is absolutely no excuse anywhere, at any time, for any reason, where cheating is okay.  Period!

Testosterone is a steroid hormone and it does aid in many health related problems.  It can also be the cause of some very nasty health issues and side effects, one being the risk of it altering personality. 

If he really needs to be on this steroid at all times then I am sorry to say it doesn't matter if he cheated because of the person he is or because of the steroid.  Fact is, it will likely happen again.

I am truly sorry this is happening but now is the time to face facts, accept what is happening and get help to guide you through this.  The people here are very helpful and you will reap the benefits but please do consider getting professional help as well.




I am seeing a counselor because I was trying to save the mariage. Dino, you are absolutetly right! Everyone on this board is awesome!

[Wheels of Terror]

 
I can go from working on the car to dressed up with make up on a half hour later. Then ready to go out.

You sound like Mrs. Right to me.  
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Thank you. You want to go on a cruise? We're just friends though....

I have never cheated on anyone I have been with.

[TruckDriver]

Testosterone or not, there is absolutely no excuse anywhere, at any time, for any reason, where cheating is okay.  Period!

Testosterone is a steroid hormone and it does aid in many health related problems.  It can also be the cause of some very nasty health issues and side effects, one being the risk of it altering personality.  

If he really needs to be on this steroid at all times then I am sorry to say it doesn't matter if he cheated because of the person he is or because of the steroid.  Fact is, it will likely happen again.

I am truly sorry this is happening but now is the time to face facts, accept what is happening and get help to guide you through this.  The people here are very helpful and you will reap the benefits but please do consider getting professional help as well.

I take the shots 2 times a month, or every other week in the upper butt cheeks. But in my case, it is keeping me alive. I still could never cheat on a woman ever.

Well you don't have to ask why he is still taking it.  Just re-read what the "truckdriver" said.  It gives you the sex drive of a 16 yeaI'r old and increases muscle mass.  Basically makes you feal good.  Makes you more ambitious.  I'm pretty sure it hurts your attention span doesn't it?

I didn't know that too much can kill you.  Well I suppose I could have guessed it.  Just look at some of the clowns in the gym taking horse roids.  But, if you can take the good stuff with doctor supervision...............maybe something to think of!  

Truckdriver, is it like having the "fountain of youth"?

It actually increased my attention span. They say the medication can actually prevent Alzheimer's disease too. I wouldnt say it is a total fountain of youth, but it has helped me in some areas, and in others not so much. But I have NO serious side effects. The hair on my body tripled and the hair on my head started falling out cause it can cause male pattern baldness. Although, I was already thinning out before I got on the medication.

And, for what it is worth, I never in my life had a normal relationship ever and technically never yet had a true girlfriend (long story). I never yet met a woman that didn't want me for money or some other reason. But never one that wanted me for me. After 10 years with my ex, I'm very parinoid around women now if they start showing a intrest in me. I would love to have a relationship once that was real and good, but I'm not sure I'll ever find anyone that will deal with my parinoia now.  

[Wheels of Terror]

Testosterone or not, there is absolutely no excuse anywhere, at any time, for any reason, where cheating is okay.  Period!

Testosterone is a steroid hormone and it does aid in many health related problems.  It can also be the cause of some very nasty health issues and side effects, one being the risk of it altering personality.  

If he really needs to be on this steroid at all times then I am sorry to say it doesn't matter if he cheated because of the person he is or because of the steroid.  Fact is, it will likely happen again.

I am truly sorry this is happening but now is the time to face facts, accept what is happening and get help to guide you through this.  The people here are very helpful and you will reap the benefits but please do consider getting professional help as well.

I take the shots 2 times a month, or every other week in the upper butt cheeks. But in my case, it is keeping me alive. I still could never cheat on a woman ever.

Well you don't have to ask why he is still taking it.  Just re-read what the "truckdriver" said.  It gives you the sex drive of a 16 yeaI'r old and increases muscle mass.  Basically makes you feal good.  Makes you more ambitious.  I'm pretty sure it hurts your attention span doesn't it?

I didn't know that too much can kill you.  Well I suppose I could have guessed it.  Just look at some of the clowns in the gym taking horse roids.  But, if you can take the good stuff with doctor supervision...............maybe something to think of!  

Truckdriver, is it like having the "fountain of youth"?

It actually increased my attention span. They say the medication can actually prevent Alzheimer's disease too. I wouldnt say it is a total fountain of youth, but it has helped me in some areas, and in others not so much. But I have NO serious side effects. The hair on my body tripled and the hair on my head started falling out cause it can cause male pattern baldness. Although, I was already thinning out before I got on the medication.

And, for what it is worth, I never in my life had a normal relationship ever. I never yet met a woman that didn't want me for money or some other reason. But never one that wanted me for me. After 10 years with my ex, I'm very parinoid around women now if they start showing a intrest in me. I would love to have a relationship once that was real and good, but I'm not sure I'll ever find anyone that will deal with my parinoia now. 

If someone uses someone for their money they are shallow. If your going to devote yourself to someone, why waste your time by being with them for money??
TruckDriver that is a shame. A person that truly falls in love with you would take the paranoia away. They would want to be with YOU so they would instill confidence by their genuine behavior. Hang in there. There are plenty of cars in the dealerships and there are many dealerships... lol Sorry for the corny....

[Budnicks]

Sorry duplicate thread

[Budnicks]

Wheels of Terror; Sorry to read about your problems with your husband... Here is something you probably don't want to hear, but is true more often than not... If the guy cheated on you once, he will do it again & probably already has... I have 2 older sisters, 3 younger sisters & 2 younger brothers that have all gone thru this, at one time or another, I told them the same thing, "they will do it again, you can count on it", they all did... It's a simple caractor flaw, that if their morals/beliefs allows/leads them to do it once & justify it with some lame excuses/lies, you can bet your bottom dollar they will lie about it &/or do it to you or someone else in the future, "your either a cheater or your not"... Men are pretty simple, that way... I have experienced the same thing with cheating women, if they are cheaters, they will always be a cheater, you can bank on it... Good luck in your future endeavours of the heart, when one door closes, another door usually opens, keep your chin up...

[Wheels of Terror]

Well considering he wants a divorce I won't be back with him. He is a wonderful man. I think other things justchanged him.

[Budnicks]

Well considering he wants a divorce I won't be back with him. He is a wonderful man. I think other things justchanged him.

Best wishes, I hope you find what it is your looking for...

[Wheels of Terror]

Thank you! 

[nvrbdn]

i just have to say you sound incredible. you have handled this whole thing very well. not throwing dagers and talking very respectful. i applaud you for your self control in an open forum.

[Ponch ®]

i just have to say you sound incredible. you have handled this whole thing very well. not throwing dagers and talking very respectful. i applaud you for your self control in an open forum.

Yeah, now post some eye candy pics. 

[TheGhost]

Time for the leg humping to begin.

[skip68]

I agree, this thread is useless without pictures.   

[Kern Dog]

Chris Rock has said many things about relationships in his act. Some make sense, others are probably just for shock/comic value.
" A man is only as faithful as his options."  NOT true in most cases. I'm a good looking guy, married twice. NEVER cheated on a wife or girlfriend. I see pretty women frequently. Some flirt my way, but I never give in. The marital vow..."Forsaking all others..." Means something to me. I DO feel for the people stuck in sexless or loveless relationships though. Life goes by too fast to waste it in a crappy relationship. My first marraige ended when the swollen broad went on the Jenny Craig program. She went from 204 to 148 and was aiming for 140 when she jumped ship. I was all broken up over it for a couple of months.....THEN I got off of my ass and started going to nightclubs. I was 27 at the time. In no time I learned that some women actually found me to be attractive! I had been deprived of affection for awhile and it had affected my self esteem. WOMEN actually LIKE sex? REALLY???
The breakup was the 2nd best thing that ever happened to me. Meeting my current wife is # 1. There is no way that I would have met the RIGHT woman without first meeting a few wrong ones!