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Started by Roger 68 charger, March 05, 2012, 02:16:28 PM

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Roger 68 charger

March 05, 2012, 02:16:28 PM
I haven't been on the site for awhile,thought I would drop in let you know what happened....

Been together for 27 years,married for 22. Back in Oct. I found out that my wife was having a affair with her boss. Three days after I found out ,she moved in with him. Left me and the kids (21 and 18) to pick up the pieces. I filed for divorce and everything is pretty well settled. She got some things out of the house, all the 410K and this years taxes. I got the house ,my cars and my pension. I really wouldn't wish this on anybody,just glad its about over. Final court date is march 19th.

I'm ready to get back working on my car again and moving my life forward! Thinking about taking the kids out to Vegas in April for the Mopars at the Strip.
Hopefully see some of you there!
68 charger RT 505"
70 cuda
99 Durango

Finn

#1
March 05, 2012, 02:19:19 PM
 :cheers: Welcome back!
1968 Dodge Charger 440, EFI, AirRide suspension
1970 Dodge Challenger RT/SE 383 magnum
1963 Plymouth Savoy 225 with a 3 on the tree.
2002 Dodge Ram 5.9L 360
2014 Dodge Dart 2.4L

charge69

#2
March 05, 2012, 02:37:47 PM
Man, that is tough !  I am glad you came out alright and now take your mind off this with working on your Charger.

Time heals all wounds and it will get better, just wait and see.

Silver R/T

#3
March 05, 2012, 02:57:24 PM
Sorry to hear this, don't let this pull you down. Hopefully things will turn up for you
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1968 silver/black/red striped R/T
My Charger is hybrid, it runs on gas and on tears of ricers
2001 Ram 2500 CTD
1993 Mazda MX-3 GS SE
1995 Ford Cobra SVT#2722

Old Moparz

#4
March 05, 2012, 03:18:36 PM
What's always good for a laugh is to send a phony letter from a fictitious medical office addressed to her new friend with positive test results for STD's.

Might keep her wondering for a while.  :D
               Bob               



              Going Nowhere In A Hurry

Ponch ®

#5
March 05, 2012, 04:26:51 PM
sucks to hear, but as you said, youre picking up the pieces.

99 problems...
"I spent most of my money on cars, birds, and booze. The rest I squandered." - George Best

Chrysler Performance West

TruckDriver

#6
March 05, 2012, 05:02:56 PM
Welcome back. Divorce sucks, I been there. Were here to support you though if you need it. That's what the Charger/Mopar family is about  :pity:
PETE

My Dad taught me about TIME TRAVEL.
"If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!" :P

chargerboy69

#7
March 05, 2012, 05:09:31 PM
I am sorry to hear this.  Been through a couple myself, the first ended just like yours.

With time it will get easier and there will be someone else who comes along who appreciates you and the Charger.  Of course making sure the kids get through this is the first priority.
Indiana Army National Guard 1st Battalion, 293rd Infantry. Nightfighters. Fort Wayne Indiana.


A government big enough to give you everything you need, is a government big enough to take away everything that you have.
--Gerald Ford


                                       

BrianShaughnessy

#8
March 05, 2012, 05:40:35 PM
That sux....   but glad you're on the upswing now  :cheers:


Next time... rent'em !   :yesnod:
Black Betty:  1969 Charger R/T - X9 440 six pack, TKO600 5 speed, 3.73 Dana 60.
Sinnamon:  1969 Charger R/T - T5 440, 727, 3.23 8 3/4 high school sweetheart.

Fred

#9
March 05, 2012, 07:29:25 PM
My first marriage lasted 2 years. I walked away with nothing. Turns out the divorce was a blessing in disguise, met the love of my life and just celebrated 38 years.  ;D
I wish you well.


Tomorrow is promised to no one.......drive your Charger today.

Tilar

#10
March 05, 2012, 07:34:32 PM
Wow Fred, 38 years? With the same one?? I've been married 3 times...  8 years being the longest and 13 days being the shortest.   :lol:  I can laugh now.  :yesnod:
Dave  

God must love stupid people; He made so many.


Fred

#11
March 05, 2012, 07:42:34 PM
Yeah I know Tilar. I guess sometimes you just get lucky.


Tomorrow is promised to no one.......drive your Charger today.

TK73

#12
March 05, 2012, 08:03:09 PM
MATS will be cool !!   Smokin rubber and race fuel therapy  :2thumbs:
1973 Charger : 440cid - 727 - 8.75/3.55


Now watch what you say or they'll be calling you a radical,
      a liberal, oh fanatical, criminal.
Won't you sign up your name, we'd like to feel you're
      acceptable, respectable, oh presentable, a vegetable!

Roger 68 charger

#13
March 05, 2012, 08:20:13 PM
I've had a few people tell me that it might not seem like it now ,but this could be the best thing that could have happened to me.
Just glad I have my health and my two kids are my Rock right now!
Thanks for all the support
68 charger RT 505"
70 cuda
99 Durango

vancamp

#14
March 05, 2012, 08:56:32 PM
sorry to hear about your divorce but it could have been a lot worse I have a few buddies that are walking testaments to that.

A383Wing

#15
March 05, 2012, 09:21:18 PM
My only marriage will be 38 years this August...I have had my 66 Charger longer   :popcrn:

Bryan

mrsskip68

#16
March 06, 2012, 12:29:24 AM
Not sure if your aware as the rest here are, but Skip68 is up for "Special Social" renting time if interested.  Lol!   :smilielol: :smilielol: :smilielol: :smilielol: :nana: :nana: :nana: :rofl: :rofl:


P.S. Hope you smiled!  :lol: Makes you feel better!






Oh, im so gonna get spanked for that one!  :yesnod:

A383Wing

#17
March 06, 2012, 12:36:40 AM
Quote from: mrsskip68 on March 06, 2012, 12:29:24 AM




Oh, im so gonna get spanked for that one!  :yesnod:

Line forms at the right

Bryan

Kern Dog

#18
March 06, 2012, 02:51:19 AM
Vegas, huh? Well in YOUR case, go hog wild! Hookers, drugs, midgets, whatever. Time to cut loose and get wiggly!

Tilar

#19
March 06, 2012, 05:06:36 AM
Quote from: Roger 68 charger on March 05, 2012, 08:20:13 PM
I've had a few people tell me that it might not seem like it now ,but this could be the best thing that could have happened to me.

It's funny sometimes how friends can see things you don't. My second marriage was a disaster from the "I do's" and my friends tried to tell me it would be that way. 13 days later I come home from work to a note on the table that said she had gone to Kentucky with her ex husband which was bad enough, but the bitch took my friggin truck which was worse!  :RantExplode:  I did get it back though.

Dave  

God must love stupid people; He made so many.


472 R/T SE

#20
March 06, 2012, 05:46:02 AM
Sorry to hear.  Sounds like it's turned out for the better.  Don't know if you can call it this, but y'all were lucky the kids were on the older side.

My Father had a zipper problem so he & Mom didn't last until about my freshmen year.  Thing was I had a younger brother & sister.  They're the ones that suffer the most.  Neither one has turned out worth a shit.
I learned at an early age that if there was something I wanted, no problem, I was responsible for payment.
Everything meant graduation invitations, lunch tickets, etc., everything.

cavemanno1

#21
March 06, 2012, 07:16:13 AM
 :'(

firefighter3931

#22
March 06, 2012, 04:14:19 PM
Keep your head up Roger !  :yesnod:

You got the Kids, your house, your pension and the Charger....you just lost an extra 120lbs that you really didn't need to be carrying around, anymore !   ;)

Enjoy your newfound freedom  :cheers:



Ron
68 Charger R/T "Black Pig" Street/Strip bruiser, 70 Charger R/T 440-6bbl Cruiser. Firecore ignition  authorized dealer ; contact me with your needs

Charger-Bodie

#23
March 06, 2012, 04:35:54 PM
Yep, After a while you will become independent in your way and the next one will have to accept you that way or move on. Thats how it was for me anyway. I found that life is too short to live it for someone else.
68 Charger R/t white with black v/t and red tailstripe. 440 4 speed ,black interior
68 383 auto with a/c and power windows. Now 440 4 speed jj1 gold black interior .
My Charger is a hybrid car, it burns gas and rubber............

moparstuart

#24
March 06, 2012, 05:42:15 PM
Quote from: 1HotDaytona on March 06, 2012, 04:35:54 PM
Yep, After a while you will become independent in your way and the next one will have to accept you that way or move on. Thats how it was for me anyway. I found that life is too short to live it for someone else.
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