I Have A Confession

[moparguy01]

theres lots of hot college chicks out here in fargo though, maybe you should come out here.

UHHH you in the same fargo I am in,  Well I guess maybe I am older and do not go out as much....

have you had a lot to drink when you see these hot women?

Just Kidding

Tom

they hang around on the college campuses and usually are bitching and moaning about some politically correct crap, or something like that, i dont really pay attention.....haha

[Spartan]

Well, you don't have to be an a-hole but don't be their doormat either.     And some girls love to create their own drama, that they are always victims in a relationship,   those types are never worth the hassle.   My wife's sister is as high maintenance as they come, always the victim, always the one done wrong,   she has created all her problems herself and wants everyone to bail her out.   I told my wife to stay away from her drama and not get sucked.   I have allot of moral issues the way she conducts herself.   You don't need to be around chicks like that. Saying you died wasn't the cool way to get rid of it though.

[Darkness]

Spartan you have a very good point there and thanks for sharing the story with us on the board here. The biggest reason I sent out the email is because technically I do not exsist by the name those people knew me. I am getting my first name changed and I have already changed my phone #. In addition, if any of you all knew what I've had to endure in the past year, here's one of the many stories of what happened to me.

Yeah I've had it happen a lot. Sad thing is I can't go out anymore without looking over my shoulder in certain places anyways. I don't bother anyone, I keep to myself, and try not to cause drama. Maybe I am the one with the problem but, I've been nice and understanding. Time for a change a plans and try to defend myself if needed without hurting someone of course.
Anyways, sometimes if you scare people they will leave you alone. I had my prior roommate bust into my apartment while I was sleeping one night. This was after I had kicked her out and I had all of her stuff up in the garage since I live here in the lower level. She had a key to the door upstairs. Unfournately, she decided be in the door down here and I wake up to her being in my room here yelling at me. She comes busting in and I instantly go into flight mode. She comes in the kitchen to grab food and I'm like get out or I'll call the cops. She looks at me and I pop out the phone and dial 911. She was like no. Then I took a can of food from the table and throw it right next to her intentionally missing her. She looks up at me like what the heck and I give her the look get out now or else. She saw that I was so angry that I was shaking. Then, I got my tire iron from my bed and followed her back up to the stairs where I watched her until she got all of her stuff back out of the garage and she turned in her key. She and her friend left and I watched them until I saw them turn off the street and head back to hear Aunt's Place.
Neither one of them has bothered me but, her current b/f wants to kick my but because she didn't tell him that she cheated on him and she specifically told me in a conversation that he didn't need to know neither did the other guy until I decided that he needed to know but, he kind of knew already from someone else. So, that was one reason why she had to go. And that's just one story. I've have plenty of others.

[Darkness]

Yes, while you have a point Spartan I am technically gone since I getting my first name changed to one of middle names. Technically and legally ( on paper) I am no longer that person and no one knows my middle name. As crazy as it sounds this is the sane and best thing I can do for myself.   In addition, this girl is being crazy about how she wants me to die. I think its time to get the police involved and file a report against since I have a feeling from her statement thing could get uglier.

[Nupe]

What a train wreck this post is!    Sorry to hear about your problems 89vert, but you need to get rid of the psycho ASAP.  Don't change your name or anything because of her.

The A-hole thing works for a while on young girls but eventally they get fed up with the jerks and start looking for the nice guys.

Sucks being nice.  All the chicks I meet looking for the "nice guy" always date the worst a-holes available.  They love it.  Biggest problem around here is this state is a sausage festival.  Probably a 5 to 1 ratio of men to women.     It's almost like I should take a number when meeting someone new.

[Darkness]

nupe, thanks for the kind words. Actually she isn't the only one. There's some females like this. Like I said one wants me to die in a car wreck, the other has her b/f that wants to beat me, and well the rest fall somewhere in between.

[69_500]

Seems to me that you have a lot going on in your life Vert.

I don't think its a good thing to try to change your name and remain in the same place. If your so worried about something to change your name, then i'd just leave that town and move on. Running away from problems never solves them though.

[69_500]

It also seems that you have a bit of an anger management problem as well. Throwing a can of food at a roommate, intentionally missing them or not is not the right thing to do. Neither is following them with a tire iron.

[Darkness]

Nevermind. I'll just let it go.

[gsmopar]

That's just toooo much reading!  Can you just post some pics of them with the associated story next to each.  That way I can just read about the hot ones!   

[69_500]

Was just making an observation, but when a person read about someone throwing stuff at a room mate, or following them with a tire iron, it tends to put a thought in your head.

[Darkness]

69 500 you have a point there but, the thing is she was told not to come into this area of the house and she was neither granted access to come into the house unless I was present. She did neither and walked into my room while I was sleeping and started yelling at me. She was told to get out three times in a nice manner and I even threatened to call the cops and then she started mouthing off again. She had no reason too especially when she was the one who trespassing. She had been kicked out prior. But, anyways that's all I'm gonna say about that because I felt she posed a threat since I didn't know if anyone was outside or not. At least she left me alone. Anyways, thanks to all who replied to this thread. I'll probably just lay low for the winter perhaps. I need a break from this anyways.