Seriously, how long do you wait untill you ...

[Big Lebowski]

     ...date/bang/whatever the neighbor chick?  She's breaking up & she's horny. I know what the little red devil on my left shoulder is telling me to do, but the angel on my right shoulder knows better. I tried that 20 years ago, it doesn't always work out. The problem is she's 10 years older than I am, but she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog. That's for sure.
   I Need advise mostly from you old guys because I know what you young guys would do.     

[Daytona R/T SE]

     she's horny.   

While you're sitting home alone typing this, somebody else is sniffin' on it....turn off the computer, walk out the door and get to it !!!

[Rack]

Hit that shit hard, Dawg, and bail.


Seriously, hit that shit. When you're done, hit it 2 more times.


But then again, there are no angels on either of my shoulders. In fact, I may just be that horned red guy on your left shoulder.  

[2Gunz]

Im 31 so I dont Know If Im part of the older crowd yet.  lol

The trouble is your friend prolly does care.

He might not want her, but he doesnt want anybody else to have either.

How much do you value your friend?

[Big Lebowski]

     she's horny.   

While you're sitting home alone typing this, somebody else is sniffin' on it....turn off the computer, walk out the door and get to it !!!

 Yep, I've thought about that. She's had enough of guys pinching her butt at the bars, I'm just a good friend who just hasn't tried to bang her. Maybe that's a turn-on, soon she'll be pinching my butt.

[Big Lebowski]

Im 31 so I dont Know If Im part of the older crowd yet.  lol

The trouble is your friend prolly does care.

He might not want her, but he doesnt want anybody else to have either.

How much do you value your friend?

  Bingo, that's it. Trust me, that's why I'm not there now.

[Silver R/T]

I would stay away from someone like that, if its really your FRIEND's Ex that is

[Big Lebowski]

  They never married, and she's free now. Wow!

[Rack]

Simply ask your friend if he would mind if you "went out" with her. Don't listen to his answer, read his body language instead. If he appears uncomfortable with the thought, then leave her alone.


If he seems ok with it... 

[Lowprofile]

They never married, and he's dating a stripper now. Wow!

Bro, are you f&*%$#g kidding me!  Hit it RIGHT NOW!

PS....dont forget to post some pics of this Victoria's Secert model. 

[Steve P.]

Are you in LOVE or in LUST?

[Charger_Croatia]

Simply ask your friend if he would mind if you "went out" with her. Don't listen to his answer, read his body language instead. If he appears uncomfortable with the thought, then leave her alone.


If he seems ok with it... 

[TruckDriver]

I wouldn't worry about the age. I prefer younger women. Hell, my grandfather was 10 years younger then my grandmother. Plus, some women prefer older guys because of maturity. Go for it.

[Shakey]

     ...date/bang/whatever your friends ex?  He doesn't care & she's horny. I know what the little red devil on my left shoulder is telling me to do, but the angel on my right shoulder knows better. I tried that 20 years ago, it doesn't always work out. The problem is she's 10 years younger than I am, but she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog. That's for sure.
   I Need advise mostly from you old guys because I know what you young guys would do.     

she can wear anything in the Victoria Secret catalog

You didn't mention what size.   

As mentioned, no matter what your friend says, I'd leave it alone.  There are plenty of broads out there.

Look at the big picture, you slay her, you fall in love, you marry and there will forever be that tension between you and your friend.  Is it worth it?  Is his friendship more valuable?

Do what you think is right!

[hemihead]

I'm 42, in my vast experience( at least where my friends were concerned) lovers are one thing but friends are always friends.If my friends ex wanted some of me, my friend knows that I'm going to hit it.None of my friends would care anyway.He already had it. 

[bluesfool]

The longer the friendship, the longer you should wait. How long were they together and how long have they been broken up? His feelings toward her now may carry over to you should you and her get serious, so pay attention to their relationship now too. Like has been said already, just ask your friend and see HOW HE ACTS, not necessarily what he says.

[Orange_Crush]

Bros before hos.

Pleanty of trim out there for the taking, why bother with the baggage.

[TeeWJay426]

Bros before hos.

Pleanty of trim out there for the taking, why bother with the baggage.

Plenty of horny babes out there... how many good friends do you have, and how important are they? He says he doesn't care, but is that really true? Who bagged the relationship, and why? Personallly, too many complications to go down that road.... I been there and done that!

[Old Moparz]

Get your friend to get a blood test, then ask yourself the same question after he gets the results.  

Personally, I never went out with any of my friend's ex's, but I did have a friend who went out with one of mine. It didn't ruin or strain our friendship, but it did bug me somewhat & I kept it to myself. Mostly because I had stopped seeing her because she was dating other guys when I was dating her. I'm kind of selfish & just not into sharing much except for some beers.

I wouldn't date your friend's ex, but then again, it all depends on the situation. One friend of mine dated another friend's ex, & they ended up marrying. They've been together like 16 years & there's no hard feeling on anyone's part either.

(By the way, I'm 43.)

[Orange_Crush]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

[Steve P.]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

    Is she into cars?? Plenty of others here that would love to take her out!!   GREEDY!!!

[chrisII]

well im 32...but my last 2 girlfriends have told me im old (25 an 27). I say hit it, if i was avalible and my best friend and his wife split up i would date her in a heart beat. but i wouldnt be a dog about it an just nail her a few times an move on either. some times people just dont belong together, others do its a wierd thing and your friend shuld be mature about it..he does have a striper to keep his mind off of it.

[dodge freak]

Why don't you just go to lunch or something where you can get to know each other a little better but can easily say you have to go back to work or whatever ? If YOU think she is for you and feel theres a good chance of being very happy with her and think she feels the same way, then go ahead. A good Wife is more improtant than a good buddy. Is your good buddy going to help take care of you as you get old ? Do you want to go places -vacations, dinner , movies with a buddy or a wife ?

[Old Moparz]

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

Thanks.   

(By the way, I'm 43.)

Yeah, but you don't look a day over 62!

    Is she into cars?? Plenty of others here that would love to take her out!!   GREEDY!!!

Sorry there horn bag, I still talk to her once in a while & she's not the same way she was all those years ago. 

[Rack]

If this guy is truly your friend not only would he be cool with it, he'd give you tips as to what she likes done to her in the sack. He's give you all the 411 you need.

[Neal_J]

Six months, unless she's extremely hot.

MAN LAW !!!

Neal

[PocketThunder]

Plenty of horny babes out there...

ummm what?   i dont know where "there" is but it sure isnt around here.....

[Big Lebowski]

Bros before hos.

Pleanty of trim out there for the taking, why bother with the baggage.

Plenty of horny babes out there... how many good friends do you have, and how important are they? He says he doesn't care, but is that really true? Who bagged the relationship, and why? Personallly, too many complications to go down that road.... I been there and done that!

  Ya OC he's a good friend, that's why I'm resisting. He bagged the relationship and jokes about me going over there to fix everything at her place..."Don't be scared, it's all good, just go over there and bang the back steps back together, and fix all the leaky plumbing while you're there."

         The problem is, I still remember trying this same thing 20 years ago, these things don't always work out, in fact the old story about chewing your own arm off to escape. That's a true story

[Big Lebowski]

Plenty of horny babes out there...

ummm what?   i dont know where "there" is but it sure isnt around here.....

  Right now, today around our La Jolla Calif beaches, they are covered with the hottest chicks on the planet. Try the beach around sunset, wow! You don't need to know what those "Missile twisters" can teach you.

[Big Lebowski]

Why don't you just go to lunch or something where you can get to know each other a little better but can easily say you have to go back to work or whatever ? If YOU think she is for you and feel theres a good chance of being very happy with her and think she feels the same way, then go ahead. A good Wife is more improtant than a good buddy. Is your good buddy going to help take care of you as you get old ? Do you want to go places -vacations, dinner , movies with a buddy or a wife ?

     I've known her for years, and really never thought about going out with her, banging her ya, marrying her no. But I'll tell you she is the lumber camp play toy of your dreams.

[HAZZARDJOHN]

Look at it this way, some day you will be tired of putting up with her Sh**, but a buddy will at least bring beer over and not ask you if he looks fat in his pants.

~HJ

[Blown70]

Look at it this way, some day you will be tired of putting up with her Sh**, but a buddy will at least bring beer over and not ask you if he looks fat in his pants.

~HJ

[2Gunz]

No matter how hot she is some guy is sick of banging her and sick of her shit.

Just remember that 

[dodge freak]

Thats why the young ones are the best.     BTW I mean 21 or so, I hear enough crap this week.

[Lowprofile]

     I've known her for years, and really never thought about going out with her, banging her ya, marrying her no. But I'll tell you she is the lumber camp play toy of your dreams.

Why are we still talking about this? HIT IT NOW!    He who hesitates, masturbates!  

[dodge freak]

 

[Rack]

Look at it this way, some day you will be tired of putting up with her Sh**, but a buddy will at least bring beer over and not ask you if he looks fat in his pants.

~HJ

Yeah but you aren't gonna want to f**k your buddy...

at least I wouldn't.


No one is telling this guy to marry her. Just nail her and be done with it. You only have to put up with their sh** if you stick around awhile.

[RallyeMike]

Book yourself on Dr. Phil or Oprah.

[Rolling_Thunder]

dude - im freshly 20 but have quite a bit of experience in the Lady department (god knows how)    and I would usually be the horned dude sitting on your shoulder  - but it has seemed that my opinion has changed -


dont do it...        unless you post a pic and I say its ok


i mean - ask the guy -  when my best friend asked if he could date my ex (the bitch) i said sure - no problem...     but i warned him about her too...           because i personally didnt care or even talk to her anymore...    so why not

[Khyron]

stick it in her butt.

[TheGhost]

God damned pack of wolves in here....


It all comes down to if the friend is okay with it or not.  I picked up a friends ex a couple weeks after they broke up, but then again, we were both going after her at the same time (he asked her out ONE DAY before I did.) so I guess I'd call that a special circumstance.

[Silver R/T]

sounds like Jerry Springer action here

[Lightning]

personally, i'm 21, I say let her make the first move, that way you know if she feels the same or not, and if she does, definately ask your best friend (like they were saying, body language and everything), and if he says yes, I'd still be asking both of those things that appear on your shoulders wether to hit it or not.  (my say is just leave her be...)

[Big Lebowski]

Book yourself on Dr. Phil or Oprah.

 Yep there's still some tension between them both, you old cautious guys may be right. She's still in the crying, love hate stage. I feel like a marriage counselor who's walking on hot coals.

[TeeWJay426]

  Yep there's still some tension between them both, you old cautious guys may be right. She's still in the crying, love hate stage. I feel like a marriage counselor who's walking on hot coals.

I think you just answered your own question with that statement right there.......

[Rack]

Well if you aren't gonna hit it can I have her phone number? 

[BB1]

 

[Old Moparz]

Thats why the young ones are the best.     BTW I mean 21 or so, I hear enough crap this week.

 

[Wakko]

  Yep there's still some tension between them both, you old cautious guys may be right. She's still in the crying, love hate stage. I feel like a marriage counselor who's walking on hot coals.

I was going to say hit that shit like it was your JOB until I read that.  I'd hold off.  If need be, simply ask the dude if he minds if you tap it and read his honesty. 

Like already stated, Bros before Hoes.

[Todd Wilson]

Book yourself on Dr. Phil or Oprah.

 Yep there's still some tension between them both, you old cautious guys may be right. She's still in the crying, love hate stage. I feel like a marriage counselor who's walking on hot coals.

When in doubt Whip it out!      Thats the best time to score!


Todd

[19Charger68]

I see that you are asking advise from the "older" guys.  Well, I am probably about the oldest you are going to find on this site!  I used to listen to that on my shoulder a lot.  Ya, it may have been fun for a few minutes, but the trouble it unfailingly caused in my personal and professional life, in hindsight, was not worth it!  To paraphrase what someone else here already said, she may be the most beautiful girl in the world, but you can bet she is a pain in some poor guys butt!  It always seems to be the prettiest ones that are the most trouble.  Maybe you should heed the old song:  If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife, but from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you!  Well, maybe not ugly, but you get the idea.  Anyway, best of luck with your decision.

[73-charger-383]

stick it in her butt.

X2

[dodge freak]

Thats Gross 

[BB1]

.

[rare69]

try it, you might like it! listen to your other head. who says you have to tell your buddy about it.

[dodge freak]

Come to think of it, I  never did one and then wish I hadn't. If anything I should have did a few more times then I did. Say, how do you know you can, if you haven't did her yet ? Might just be playing with you.

[Rack]

Like I stated before, the "Shit" she gives a guy is irrelevant. She will only give you "Shit" if you stick around.


Hit it, and gtf outta there.

[d72hemi]

I will settle this once and for all.....

PM me her # and I will help her in her time of need. I am willing to take one for the team! After all your conscience means the world to me and the rest of us here. 

PS. I would say go for it, it is amazing what the excuse "I was dinking and then.....", could do for you. But really her #.

[greenpigs]

While you're sitting home alone typing this, somebody else is sniffin' on it....turn off the computer, walk out the door and get to it !!!

Spoken like a true old bar fly.

[Steve P.]

So are you really just waiting for him to read this post and give you his blessing?? 

Maybe you should send him an IM....   



Just messin with ya BL. If they are still in and out it's probably best to stay very clear......   

[Charger1973]

I have always had a standing deal with my best friend.  We dont date each others exes... period.  Anyone else I dont really give a shit about, so its fair game.   But sometimes its better to just keep someone like that as friends too.  I mean if you have been friends all this time why try and hit it now?  Obviously you get along so to me that is worth more than just one night of fun, and I would just keep it as friends.  All women have other friends too and usually like to try and hook them up, I hooked up with plenty of girls that way.  Its crazy how many girls one girl can know...

[itchyballs]

hump her... hump her...hump her

[Chargerguy74]

My friends would never have a problem with this. If a guy would have a problem with you banging his ex, especially after he dumped her and started a new relationship, what kind of friend is that?

[greenpigs]

I guess if you hook up with her, don't tell your buddy unless he asks. It is not being a whimp, just who wants to hear about the x & even more if she did something for you she wouldn't for him. SOME women may try and play games to hurt the guy, so go ATM on her just in case.

[dodge freak]

Man, maybe I am cold hearted-a good chance-but I have never ever thought  of the other guy if she was not married or close being married , unless he was big enough to kick my ass. Thats the only thing that would stop me if I wanted her and she was not married. Maybe I am a little old fashion, but as far as I know, I never did a married girl or would do. Last thing I would want is to break a couple up. But if she was unmarried and was not close being well then she is fair game.

[Lowprofile]

Well, what's the deal....You Hittin' or Quittin'? 

[Big Lebowski]

We're going to watch some fireworks tomorrow, the haggis is in the fire for sure now

[d72hemi]

We're going to watch some fireworks tomorrow, the haggis is in the fire for sure now

good job, now go show her a good time.        

[Big Lebowski]

  Never happened. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. She still wants to marry him. This girl just can't move on, or give up. That's true love for ya. We're still good friends though, and she has plenty of hot friends too.

[charger490]

ok dude i say hit it anyway because time is getting short. i am 74 and if i have the chance i hit it.friens are all over the place but most of my friends are womaen. if you move to another part of the country is he going with you NO. so get on with it today and look for more.i have one of the black books and keep track of my hits on women and just trying to fill the book charger490

[PocketThunder]

ok dude i say hit it anyway because time is getting short. i am 74 and if i have the chance i hit it.friens are all over the place but most of my friends are womaen. if you move to another part of the country is he going with you NO. so get on with it today and look for more.i have one of the black books and keep track of my hits on women and just trying to fill the book charger490