Is there some way to get your love back?

[Nacho-RT74]

This year has being really hard to me. Lot of problems at home with my father and brother ( drugs and alcohol ), country is, well you know... several problems at job made me decide to quit and now I'm "freelance" ( really risky at these days ). But you know guys, that everything would be really easy to survive if the woman I have loved in last two years really come back to me.

Unfortunally she left the country 5 days ago ( fortunatelly to Spain ), and was on a new relationship since some months ago. I have kept a gap with her, but honestly I still dream with her. I really love her.

I have lost the faith in God ( sorry to say that, but i'm having really big doubts about everything latelly ). Is the only kind of "miracle" I have requested in my life... always related about my relationships. Never have got any kind of feedback from "God"

Really, seriouslly love her. I dream her back with me not to far in the time.

Sorry, just needed to vent it out! This is really depressing.

[XH29N0G]

The situation stinks, and I'm really sorry to hear. It will take some time,but hang in there. I can say you're appreciated on this forum and expect that others here share the same opinion. Sorry I don't write more. I just don't know what else can be said that would make anything any better.


Time will heal.

[Kern Dog]

I was still in love with my 1st wife when she moved out. I later saw that move as a blessing. She wasn't as great as I thought she was. Her leaving opened up so many new possibilities to meet someone much better. I have been with the love of my life for 17 years and counting.

If the hope of a better tomorrow is too hard to grasp, you can do what others do....BOOZE and drugs. 

[AKcharger]

Sorry to hear that Nacho. I would suggest a host of tips and tricks but if she's not even in the country I'm no help. The only thing I can offer on the God angle is do not discount "un-answered prayer" just like a parent doesn't answer every request of their children neither does God...and for very good reasons. I know of countless examples of things I wanted, prayed about and didn't get...and got something better or saw how it was good I didn't get what I asked for! (Except the '70 440-6 pack Coronet R/T I could have bought in 1981 for $600)

[Tilar]

I have lost the faith in God ( sorry to say that, but i'm having really big doubts about everything latelly ). Is the only kind of "miracle" I have requested in my life... always related about my relationships. Never have got any kind of feedback from "God"

Don't lose your faith in God.  Whether you believe it or not God answers prayers,  Sometimes the answer is No.  You also have to understand that sometimes God takes someone out of your life because he has other plans for you.  

[polywideblock]

sorry to hear about your troubles ,no easy fix . 

as far as god goes I'm a confirmed atheist , but as our local priest used to say " everyone says there is no god!! ,he never listens to me . sure he does he just says NO "

just keep plodding along and hope that your mo-jo comes back 

[Mytur Binsdirti]

Use your other hand; it feels like someone else is doing it.

[Ponch ®]

Use your other hand; it feels like someone else is doing it.

that's it. no more posts needed.

[JB400]

Go to church, and see what happens.

[Nacho-RT74]

Go to church, and see what happens.

doing it... but never got any feedback in the past on this same situation, so, there is a reason to have lost the faith and hope in God.

being she moved maybe the actual relationship can get in troubles, who knows.

Her mother ( who appreciatte me, and she moved to her mother's home in Alicante, Spain ) told me don't loose the hope and keep the friendship with her, 'cause the distance can be a big thermometer, distance can break and/or join the ppl.

I know she really appreciatte me, but this year has being a constant coming and going moments of disencounters

[Nacho-RT74]

I have lost the faith in God ( sorry to say that, but i'm having really big doubts about everything latelly ). Is the only kind of "miracle" I have requested in my life... always related about my relationships. Never have got any kind of feedback from "God"

Don't lose your faith in God.  Whether you believe it or not God answers prayers,  Sometimes the answer is No.  You also have to understand that sometimes God takes someone out of your life because he has other plans for you. 

how many times a NO?... I dunno really anymore.

you know, I'm 41 YO, and this is not what I dreamed at my age. Single, no children, without my own home.

I'm not feeling any good.

BTW, My Charger still at body shop ( 3 and a half years now for, whatever reason... ) and my parents car, 8 months to JUST rebuild an engine and some other minimal stuff.

Everything seems to be blocked all around my life.

[CRW-FK5]

Hang in there, man.  I can't relate to your experience but I do know that you're not alone.  Break-ups are usually tough on someone but you end up getting through it with time.  The God thing is a tough one, too.  I'm still seeking answers myself on that front.  Difficult to believe, however, that there isn't some overall plan when you take the time and consider the wonders that science continues to uncover and that you see in your everyday life.

Good luck and stay close to your friends during this tough time.  You will get through.

[djcarguy]

Sorry to hear,but those gals will stay with ya a yr or two planning an saving an even getting a new guy to move off with while still with you. an the kid thing is way over rated,fun when their young,but gaint pain latter.

    i dont get direct answers from god , but looking back iam still here an still believe. aren't you into photo taking? snap some shots of a sun set or water falls.  

      light a fire at repair shop get parents car back,an then your charger..

   as to her,getting her back    sleeping dart gun an car with big trunk?? hope that at least made ya laugh or grin. take care an focus on friends an cars ,,it will get better or ease with some time.Me 2 divorces , grown kids i rarely get to see an 57..       make some fun plans an get ya cars back/....  lattter DJ--depression thread??

[Nacho-RT74]

 

this is a real feeling... deep, really honest, pure, inocent. Real Love

[XH29N0G]

Looks that way.  Your note brings back my own memories. 

I expect it will be a hard time, and can be a long time.  That is normal, but don't give up hope. 

In the end, I was a little wiser and lucky and found someone else who was perfect for me.  I know think even more perfect.  I hope the same works out for you.  But I went through a whole series of collateral problems along the way.  It will be good if you can keep your head straight enough to avoid those.

[Kern Dog]

That is a good looking couple.

[Ponch ®]

Look, its tough. Been there. But no woman is irreplaceable or worth this much aggravation and pain. Unless she did anal, then maybe you could make a case for it.

[Dino]

Nacho I'm real sorry to hear about all the pain you're going through but I think the best thing to do is move on. She left, she made that choice, that's the end of it. As painful as it is, it's time to let go.

As far as religion goes, that's a personal decision nobody else can help you with. The believer will try to keep you in that camp, the atheist would tell you to face fact. But it's up to you to decide if you're a man of faith or a man of fact. Nobody else can make that call for you.

Nobody else can tell you what to do with the girl situation either of course, but it's a little more straightforward. Still, take our advice knowing that we're not experts on the matter, they are just well meant opinions. Stay strong my friend.

[Kern Dog]

Look, its tough. Been there. Unless she did anal, then maybe you could make a case for it.

I have never had any urge for that. I really do not see the need when the original recipe is so great!

[Ponch ®]

Look, its tough. Been there. Unless she did anal, then maybe you could make a case for it.

I have never had any urge for that. I really do see the need when the original recipe is so great!

I love pizza, but i couldnt possibly have it for dinner every night. #varietyisthespiceoflife

[ACUDANUT]

Nacho, your still young. Find another Fish in the sea.  Make sure She is in her 30's and have a Son or Daughter.  This will change your life forever.
Go to Church and pray, pray and pray some more.. Find a support system there. Join a singles group at Church and find a better women.
This worked for me when my 1st wife left me. Hell, I almost killed myself.
http://www.dodgecharger.com/forum/index.php/topic,96647.0.html#top

[HANDM]

Remember that God isn't omnipotent, he's omnipresent. When you pray, don't ask God for something, you ask for it to to be put in your path to be picked up by you or tripped over or hit in the head with............you get the idea

[Mytur Binsdirti]

Unless she did anal, then maybe you could make a case for it.

I think someone who was flexible like a gymnast would be more fun.     

[BrianShaughnessy]

Here's the 5 basic steps to relationships ending..

1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance

Sorry but it seems you're stuck in the middle.     Good luck.   

[Daytona R/T SE]

Nacho,

1. Pussy is evil.

2. It makes you do stupid shit.

3. She's gone.

4. Even if she tries, Don't let her come back...She's damaged goods at this point.

5. The only way to get over this is to fuck something else...repeatedly.

6. Revenge fucks are best.

7. Bang her best friend, worst friend, sister, cousin and maybe even her mother...

8. Stab anything you can.

9. Brag about it...to everybody.



On a side note...

I had a similar situation many years ago.

I recently realized that if I had killed the little bitch back in 1982 when I really wanted to...

I'd probably be out of jail by now...