Ok I'm just plain MAD!!

[98neongirl]

I just love how some individuals have such great advice to give to this young woman.  "do this" "dont do that" Yet probably 75% of this board is full of shit anyways and cannot figure their own life out.

It is so easy to criticize another especially when you have not walked in their shoes.  I say you lay off of her with your snide and dubious comments.  She came here just to let loose some of her frustrations and instead of just saying "ya know that sux and I am sorry you had to go through that" some of you decide to take it on your own accord to show her the error of her ways.  Especially because we all know how perfect your own lives are and that is more than enough reason to think you can tell someone else what to do with their lives.

My question to you all is this.  HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU VENTED ON THIS BOARD ABOUT A LIFE SITUATION AND BEEN TREATED AS CRAPPY AS SOME OF YOU HAVE TREATED HER?

I remember when Cudaken came on here about problems and all of you just gave him the "sorry bud" and "if you need help, just ask" speeches.  Did any of you give him the disrespectful "you need to do this" "you need to divorce your wife"  "you got screwed" speeches?  I dont remember seeing them.

But hey, she is a woman, so she is supposed to take your shit right? NO

This just disgusts me.

Thank you.....you said what I was trying to say. I mean, heaven forbid I defend myself right? Sorry but I am a fighter....
98neongirl

[RD]

I just love how some individuals have such great advice to give to this young woman.  "do this" "dont do that" Yet probably 75% of this board is full of shit anyways and cannot figure their own life out.

It is so easy to criticize another especially when you have not walked in their shoes.  I say you lay off of her with your snide and dubious comments.  She came here just to let loose some of her frustrations and instead of just saying "ya know that sux and I am sorry you had to go through that" some of you decide to take it on your own accord to show her the error of her ways.  Especially because we all know how perfect your own lives are and that is more than enough reason to think you can tell someone else what to do with their lives.

My question to you all is this.  HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU VENTED ON THIS BOARD ABOUT A LIFE SITUATION AND BEEN TREATED AS CRAPPY AS SOME OF YOU HAVE TREATED HER?

I remember when Cudaken came on here about problems and all of you just gave him the "sorry bud" and "if you need help, just ask" speeches.  Did any of you give him the disrespectful "you need to do this" "you need to divorce your wife"  "you got screwed" speeches?  I dont remember seeing them.

But hey, she is a woman, so she is supposed to take your shit right? NO

This just disgusts me.

Thank you.....you said what I was trying to say. I mean, heaven forbid I defend myself right? Sorry but I am a fighter....
98neongirl

All I can say is this. Please do not let the opinions of some on this board skew your views towards all of those that frequent this board.  Some have "keyboard courage" if you know what I mean.

[SeattleCharger]

 
   You are welcome!!  Thanks for saying so. 

[HAZZARDJOHN]

Thank you, finally someone who understands what I was trying to say.

Your welcome! I for the last four or five years have been dealing with the the constant neysayers saying that I was too young and I thank god everyday that he gave me the strength to push through and live my life the way he intends it for all. Happy and in love! If it happens at 19 so be it, if it happens at 98 so be it. Just so that it happens.

~HJ

[98neongirl]

Rd, SeattleChargerDog, and HazzardJohn, there should be more people out there like you guys. I can't believe how out of hand this all got just because some other board members have to be jerks (as you said...keyboard courage). I guarantee none of them would have the courage to say it to my face. I don't let other peoples' opinons get me down, I take what they have to say and if it's negative or demeaning, then to hell with them. They are probably unhappy with their own life anyway and like high school bullies they put others down to make themselves feel better. i just wonder when will they realize that they can bash me all they want, I will defend myself and fight back because I am extremely strong willed. Previous posts may have made me sound completely different but decipher it any way you want to. I am in the position to choose any career I want. Someone thought that I was making an excuse that since we only have one car I can't go look for a job or something...not true. Matt (my fiance) drives Mon, Tue & Wed to work, and Thur, Fri & Sat a coworker drives. The 2nd part of the week I have the car all day and each day that I have it, I am off at 10:00am job hunting, whether I come here and look for local jobs online or whether I go out and look, I'm not being lazy and sitting on my butt watching TV all day like they just assume. It's funny how they just think they know everything by looking at a young woman and stereotyping them... I don't feel that I should have to explain myself to them though. They must think I am making it up or something (yeah, tell yourself that...I have nothing better to do than cause drama on a Dodge Charger message board....get real.) but I don't care they can think what they want. All I ask is that they keep it to theirself if they aren't going to be helpful, unlike you guys, you have been very supportive and helpful. Again, I thank you!
Michelle (98neongirl)

[Ponch ®]

Rd, SeattleChargerDog, and HazzardJohn, there should be more people out there like you guys. I can't believe how out of hand this all got just because some other board members have to be jerks (as you said...keyboard courage). I guarantee none of them would have the courage to say it to my face. I don't let other peoples' opinons get me down, I take what they have to say and if it's negative or demeaning, then to hell with them. They are probably unhappy with their own life anyway and like high school bullies they put others down to make themselves feel better. i just wonder when will they realize that they can bash me all they want, I will defend myself and fight back because I am extremely strong willed. Previous posts may have made me sound completely different but decipher it any way you want to. I am in the position to choose any career I want. Someone thought that I was making an excuse that since we only have one car I can't go look for a job or something...not true. Matt (my fiance) drives Mon, Tue & Wed to work, and Thur, Fri & Sat a coworker drives. The 2nd part of the week I have the car all day and each day that I have it, I am off at 10:00am job hunting, whether I come here and look for local jobs online or whether I go out and look, I'm not being lazy and sitting on my butt watching TV all day like they just assume. It's funny how they just think they know everything by looking at a young woman and stereotyping them... I don't feel that I should have to explain myself to them though. They must think I am making it up or something (yeah, tell yourself that...I have nothing better to do than cause drama on a Dodge Charger message board....get real.) but I don't care they can think what they want. All I ask is that they keep it to theirself if they aren't going to be helpful, unlike you guys, you have been very supportive and helpful. Again, I thank you!
Michelle (98neongirl)

so are you hot?

[Blown70]

Actually I have NO problem saying anything to someones face.  So I hope you did not include me in that group.


Tom

[nh_mopar_fan]

I would have zero problem saying anything I've said in here to your face.

[Orange_Crush]

Honestly, I wouldn't have a problem saying any of this to Neongirl's face either.

[nh_mopar_fan]

Rd, SeattleChargerDog, and HazzardJohn, there should be more people out there like you guys. I can't believe how out of hand this all got just because some other board members have to be jerks (as you said...keyboard courage). I guarantee none of them would have the courage to say it to my face. I don't let other peoples' opinons get me down, I take what they have to say and if it's negative or demeaning, then to hell with them. They are probably unhappy with their own life anyway and like high school bullies they put others down to make themselves feel better. i just wonder when will they realize that they can bash me all they want, I will defend myself and fight back because I am extremely strong willed. Previous posts may have made me sound completely different but decipher it any way you want to. I am in the position to choose any career I want. Someone thought that I was making an excuse that since we only have one car I can't go look for a job or something...not true. Matt (my fiance) drives Mon, Tue & Wed to work, and Thur, Fri & Sat a coworker drives. The 2nd part of the week I have the car all day and each day that I have it, I am off at 10:00am job hunting, whether I come here and look for local jobs online or whether I go out and look, I'm not being lazy and sitting on my butt watching TV all day like they just assume. It's funny how they just think they know everything by looking at a young woman and stereotyping them... I don't feel that I should have to explain myself to them though. They must think I am making it up or something (yeah, tell yourself that...I have nothing better to do than cause drama on a Dodge Charger message board....get real.) but I don't care they can think what they want. All I ask is that they keep it to theirself if they aren't going to be helpful, unlike you guys, you have been very supportive and helpful. Again, I thank you!
Michelle (98neongirl)

You know, for someone who like to criticize people for stereotyping and making assumptions about people when they don't "know" them, you don't seem to have much of a problem doing it yourself as evidenced above.

That's called hypocrisy, honey.

[Chargen69]

 

[PocketThunder]

[RD]

this is getting ugly fast    where is that....... ya know that.............
































































oh here it is!!!! for pete's sake! PLEASE

[98neongirl]

My point was that you guys are just being jerks to me and there is not reason for it. Why do you have to be that way? It sure doesn't make you look any better. It just makes you look childish and ignorant. As for saying anything to my face...there goes the keyboard courage again. Look at what you are doing. You are older men bullying a young woman. Grow up and act your age. I sure as hell hope you don't treat your wives this way. I sure as hell wouldn't put up with your BS!

[Ponch ®]

My point was that you guys are just being jerks to me and there is not reason for it. Why do you have to be that way? It sure doesn't make you look any better. It just makes you look childish and ignorant. As for saying anything to my face...there goes the keyboard courage again. Look at what you are doing. You are older men bullying a young woman. Grow up and act your age. I sure as hell hope you don't treat your wives this way. I sure as hell wouldn't put up with your BS!

we're not trying to be pricks, but if you vent about your problems and want feedback, don't expect it to be all "oh poor you" and pat you on the head. The older guys are not trying to bully you, theyre simply telling you how it is as opposed to how you think it is - and that usually isnt what you want (but need) to hear. Sometimes the greatest sign of maturity is admitting that you are not mature enough and that others may know best.

[HAZZARDJOHN]

I can't eat Popcorn without Beer! 

[moparguy01]

Actually I have NO problem saying anything to someones face.  So I hope you did not include me in that group.


Tom

i can vouch for that, you know what this guy has said to my face? 

[Blown70]

Actually I have NO problem saying anything to someones face.  So I hope you did not include me in that group.


Tom

i can vouch for that, you know what this guy has said to my face? 

FRAM FILTERS ARE GREAT?

[98neongirl]

I don't expect you to. What I do expect is that you would atleast have been brought up to respect other people and not tell them how bad their life is based on a post which was interpreted the wrong way. I wasn't like "oh poor me" at all, I was just saying that it really sucks because I was close to getting a Charger and that would have made me happy. You automatically assume that I wouldn't have been able to fix the Neon too, but I do have an emergency savings account.However, it is still tightwhen it comes to finances since only one of us is working (which I am trying to look for a job). We need a 2nd car and I just felt it was time for me to get something that I wanted. I make sure everyone else (some friends, fiance, family) is happy, I do not put myself first. Maybe I am to blame for that but it's my mistake and you don't need to rub it in (which is what was happening in my opinion. If you disagree then we both agree to disagree, OK?)

I really don't appreciate anyone putting my fiance down for any reason, especially because he isn't making like $30k or more a year. He's 21 also, He's not supposed to have that kind of job...maybe in a few years as he builds up to it. Some of you are assuming that I am at my worst possible situation, it's not as bad as you make it sound or assume it is. Don't get me wrong, it sucks, but maybe I made it sound a little worse than it is, which is my bad, I didn't mean to. Some of you look at things I have written and prick and prod me with them in a negative manner, when I asked for support and advice that was actually helpful. You can do that without telling me not to marry the (young) man that I love because what, you don't think I should marry him if I'm 21? Well we aren't getting married until we are ready, that has always been our plan but I guess some of you assumed that we are impatient and if we don't do it (and everything else) now that we never will, that was our plan even before I posted anything on this board.

About the bullying...This is wrong, it isn't how you are supposed to treat people. I know I wasn't the only one in this entire world who was brought up to show others respect. I'm not putting you down, am I? If I did I was defending myself from something that was stated by someone else first. I'm standing here taking all of this in looking for what you guys may mean....I am not bullheaded...instead of pointing out that I have a high school education and no real job, and making it all sound like I am such a bad person for not making every single choice in my life the right one, can't you just either let it be or offer real, honest, helpful advice without pointing out my mistakes? Believe me I know what they are, it's like kicking a dead horse everytime they get pointed out.

If people would stop being rude, it would be very highly appreciated. If you can't refrain from doing that, then keep it to yourself. That is all I ask because enough is enough, I'm not "yelling" at anyone, I'm just tired of all this crap. I'm very open minded and I've said it many times before, I read everything you are all saying. I take your advice, don't just jump to the conclusion that since I'm 21 and young compared to you that I am thick skulled and not listening to what you have to say, Ok? Just stop doing it in such a hurtful way....
98neongirl

[moparguy01]

Actually I have NO problem saying anything to someones face.  So I hope you did not include me in that group.


Tom

i can vouch for that, you know what this guy has said to my face? 

FRAM FILTERS ARE GREAT?

there he goes again! see what i mean???

[Ponch ®]

I don't expect you to. What I do expect is that you would atleast have been brought up to respect other people and not tell them how bad their life is based on a post which was interpreted the wrong way. I wasn't like "oh poor me" at all, I was just saying that it really sucks because I was close to getting a Charger and that would have made me happy. You automatically assume that I wouldn't have been able to fix the Neon too, but I do have an emergency savings account.However, it is still tightwhen it comes to finances since only one of us is working (which I am trying to look for a job). We need a 2nd car and I just felt it was time for me to get something that I wanted. I make sure everyone else (some friends, fiance, family) is happy, I do not put myself first. Maybe I am to blame for that but it's my mistake and you don't need to rub it in (which is what was happening in my opinion. If you disagree then we both agree to disagree, OK?)

I really don't appreciate anyone putting my fiance down for any reason, especially because he isn't making like $30k or more a year. He's 21 also, He's not supposed to have that kind of job...maybe in a few years as he builds up to it. Some of you are assuming that I am at my worst possible situation, it's not as bad as you make it sound or assume it is. Don't get me wrong, it sucks, but maybe I made it sound a little worse than it is, which is my bad, I didn't mean to. Some of you look at things I have written and prick and prod me with them in a negative manner, when I asked for support and advice that was actually helpful. You can do that without telling me not to marry the (young) man that I love because what, you don't think I should marry him if I'm 21? Well we aren't getting married until we are ready, that has always been our plan but I guess some of you assumed that we are impatient and if we don't do it (and everything else) now that we never will, that was our plan even before I posted anything on this board.

About the bullying...This is wrong, it isn't how you are supposed to treat people. I know I wasn't the only one in this entire world who was brought up to show others respect. I'm not putting you down, am I? If I did I was defending myself from something that was stated by someone else first. I'm standing here taking all of this in looking for what you guys may mean....I am not bullheaded...instead of pointing out that I have a high school education and no real job, and making it all sound like I am such a bad person for not making every single choice in my life the right one, can't you just either let it be or offer real, honest, helpful advice without pointing out my mistakes? Believe me I know what they are, it's like kicking a dead horse everytime they get pointed out.

If people would stop being rude, it would be very highly appreciated. If you can't refrain from doing that, then keep it to yourself. That is all I ask because enough is enough, I'm not "yelling" at anyone, I'm just tired of all this crap. I'm very open minded and I've said it many times before, I read everything you are all saying. I take your advice, don't just jump to the conclusion that since I'm 21 and young compared to you that I am thick skulled and not listening to what you have to say, Ok? Just stop doing it in such a hurtful way....
98neongirl

point taken.

So, what's your cup size?

[98neongirl]

That isn't funny.

[Ponch ®]

That isn't funny.

that small?

[98neongirl]

 

[Just 6T9 CHGR]

The lady has had enough